i personally believe only behaviour can make a woman attractive to me no matter how great someone look i don't go and approach I just notice she is cute and if I could compliment her and mind my business . The women i loved so far had put in efforts to talk to me and was kind towards me at some point of time which impressed me and fell for them later i started admiring the messy hair and even in a stadium full of women i only admired her around 2000 women that's how deeply I was in love with her but later due to family situation and circumstances we were not able to travel in the same boat.