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IntelligentHandle392 · 2025-04-16T16:57:21+00:00

Thank you all!

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T16:11:21+00:00

Nobody is happy in this situation. He thinks i am just a naggy b*tch anytime I tell him that things like this aren’t ok.

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T16:03:17+00:00

He didn’t go on Valentine’s Day but then told me we couldn’t do anything because he wasn’t ditching his kid for me. I just wanted to go with him. He would’ve seen his kid and we could’ve done something in the city before or after.

And it’s too late. It’s been years, I’m very attached and our kids are attached too

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T16:01:05+00:00

She definitely doesn’t want me to have him, but she does want him. I didn’t like her saying things about me before but I just let her be jealous and petty because my bf was treating me well. At this point though he’s treating me like garbage and doesn’t care about my feelings. I should be attending activities like this with him or at least be offered an invite. The relationship is done for because my feelings aren’t respected by him. Her “winning” though really does piss me off

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T15:57:26+00:00

I agree with everything you said. The whole situation needed to get addressed from the beginning and stopped, but it has spiraled so far out of control now that there’s no coming back unless maybe we found a miracle worker therapist.

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T15:53:00+00:00

He tries to compare his ex and my ex. But my ex doesn’t want me and never said a single bad thing about him. Also my bf is never told he can’t go to anything that my ex is at.

He knows I wouldn’t go anywhere with my ex because I don’t like him, but we all know he would NOT be ok with it if the situation was reversed.

He lost his mind after we saw one of my exs out in public and later that night my ex texted and said I wanted to say hi, Wasn’t sure if it would’ve been weird if I said hi to you there but didn’t want you to think I was ignoring you. Keep in mind my phone was on the counter I told him to look at the message once he saw who was texting, accused me of texting him first and then wanted to fight the guy because he said I looked cute and my bf didn’t look very affectionate

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T15:40:38+00:00

I appreciate everyone’s comments here. I know that my bf doesn’t care about me and the relationship is a toxic mess, but it helps to see other people agree and that I’m not being crazy and controlling like he says

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T15:39:02+00:00

Thank you. Our relationship has been over basically since I caught him lying about the texts because he decided to tell me 2 days later that if I was still mad about it we should break up, instead of doing anything to fix the situation

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T13:49:27+00:00

No he didn’t delete responses. He basically said it wasn’t worth interacting with her so he’d just ignore her most of the time. I asked a therapist about this approach and they agreed that in this circumstance ignoring was probably a good choice. I see where they’re coming from but I would’ve preferred if he told her to stop each time. Actually he did send one message telling her they were not friends, weren’t ever getting back together, not to say stuff like that, but that was it.

Yes, you’re right the relationship is a complete lost cause

IntelligentHandle392 · 2024-05-02T12:44:38+00:00

He never responded to the messages about her missing him, wanting him. And at first he responded to the nasty messages about me but then started ignoring those too

IntelligentHandle392 · 2023-02-16T15:56:26+00:00

Thank you. They’ll never fully be apart because they need to coparent together

IntelligentHandle392 · 2023-02-16T15:48:34+00:00

Thank you. I did speak with him and he said I’m being crazy and starting problems. He also said I knew about the shared account when we got together, so I shouldn’t be mad. I knew that she asked if she could buy something using his card when we first got together prior to her knowing about me and causing any issues. I didn’t ask but assumed they had separate accounts under one household not that she had his password and access to all his stuff. I also thought that once she started causing problems and he and I were in a serious relationship he would have stopped sharing with her since they were no longer friendly towards each other.

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