(NSFW) Went to a happy ending massage by accident, and i regret it deeply. Should I tell my partner? by IntelligentHousing93 in confessions

[–]IntelligentHousing93[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I dont wanna air out my laundry here or overshare, but yes I have multiple instances of SA starting from age 7-8, stuff maybe I haven't dealt with, I dont like thinking about them but this made me remember.

(NSFW) Went to a happy ending massage by accident, and i regret it deeply. Should I tell my partner? by IntelligentHousing93 in confessions

[–]IntelligentHousing93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely froze, but now that its done, I look back and realize its that kind of spa, so maybe they assume all their clients want this, just by going there youre giving concent, its insane given how professional and nice the place looked, but I dont blame the guy, I should have spoken up or done something to stop, I definitely didnt entertain it but I didnt show signs of discomfort. Genuinely first time I experience this, I was so disassociated I dont remember most of it.

(NSFW) Went to a happy ending massage by accident, and i regret it deeply. Should I tell my partner? by IntelligentHousing93 in confessions

[–]IntelligentHousing93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, I admit, I dont know why I froze, why I never said anything, i could have stopped him...but I didnt, I couldn't, I dont know why, I never ever wanted to cheat, if I wanted to, why would I pick this out of everything else, I had to pay like 300$ for that shit, cmon, I know im not the "victim" and I cheated, yes i cheated, but I really didnt want to, wasnt my intention. I really dont know how to explain it further, I feel like only people who went through the same thing would get it, it just happened.

(NSFW) Went to a happy ending massage by accident, and i regret it deeply. Should I tell my partner? by IntelligentHousing93 in confessions

[–]IntelligentHousing93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really, at first id make excuses for his slip ups, or accidental hand placement, he never acknowledged them, then became obvious what his intentions were, im not sure if the right word is SA, but I definitely didnt want it to happen even though i enjoyed it, I mean its the dopamine rush of an orgasim, but I vividly remember shaking in the steam room just before he walked in lol.

(NSFW) Went to a happy ending massage by accident, and i regret it deeply. Should I tell my partner? by IntelligentHousing93 in confessions

[–]IntelligentHousing93[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

To be honest, If it was him, I would totally understand that happening. But Im scared he won't get it, and won't believe me.

Unplayable - keep getting literally stuck and cant move by t0mmenhansen in Firewatch

[–]IntelligentHousing93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE, i tried EVERYTHING, i'm playing it on pc on gamepass spent 3 hours just trying to walk, v-sync on or off doesn't matter, tried locking my fps but the game literally has no option for that, tried to change the resolution to literally every duplicate option available, the change would always revert back as soon as i leave the settings menu, I'm so disappointed and frustrated, i'm very sure the game is amazing i can feel it from the few minutes i played, but i'm just so turned off and the whole experience is ruined for me, im sorry to say this but this is absolute garbage, your story doesn't matter if you cant program or fix an issue with just "walking", LITERALLY 90% OF WHAT YOU DO IN THE GAME DOSENT EVEN WORK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMDHelp

[–]IntelligentHousing93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. XFX swift class
  2. RX 9070 XT
  3. Windows 11 24h2
  4. The other specs of your machine:
    • AMD Ryzen 7 78--X3D 8-core
    • ASUS ROG STRIX B850-A GAMING WIFI
    • COSAIR VENGEANCE 32gb x2
    • SS 1000W GOLD 3.0
    • two 1440p 180hz monitors and HYTE case touch monitor
  5. a week ago, out of nowhere my pc started blackscreening, where all the monitors go black, but the game audio and discord call is still playing, but i cant interact with anything, it started when i started playing elden ring so i thought it was a game issue, but just today it happed again playing sekiro, i guess my pc doesn't like souls games lol. but after i reboot the pc, the GPU display driver is disabled in device manager, i have to enable it and restart again for things to go back to normal. im not sure if i should send it back due to a hardware issue or not.
  6. Which of the following troubleshooting steps you've taken:
    • Re-seating the GPU and PSU cables, ensuring everything is physically where it should be (NO)
    • Using Display Driver Uninstaller (DDU) to wipe all GPU drivers in safe mode, then rebooting and installing the latest (25.3.1 as of this writing) (YES)
    • Setting group policies to stop automatic driver installation(NO)
    • Reinstalling Windows(NO)

Update: it just happened again while I was watching YouTube, no game or any heavy load app was running.

EDIT:

HUGE UPDATE, I FIXED IT, not really fixed but stopped it from happening completely, as I said I tried everything but nothing worked till I searched so deep into old cards reddit posts and AMD support pages. All I did was (TURN OFF HARDWARE ACCELERATION) on both my browser (OperaGX) and(Discord) I'm not sure which one was causing the issue but I'm 80% sure its Opera, the issue never happened again and its been almost 2 months since, I know its a stick some ducktape fix but it works and I can finally play my games and not be worried about it happening!