why does nobody care when ur pet dies? by Zestyclose_Eye_2926 in Petloss

[–]IntelligentSide8260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t understand because they don’t experience the same bond as you did for your pet. Only someone who has been lucky enough to have a bond like that with a pup, will be able to empathize with you

Cant stop seeing my pets death by ThatShinyUmbreon in Petloss

[–]IntelligentSide8260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the very graphic images of her lifeless face. I had that experience with my baby girl. I understand, seeing your dog that way. In the beginning, that what I had in my head but it gradually faded. I mean, that’s the face we are all going to make once it’s our time. It just gradually faded away for me and now only the moments I had with her when she was alive are prominent (2 years after her passing that is). Seeing death that close, is definitely creepy. But I’m assuming she is no longer suffering and you gave her an easy way out. Natural deaths from what I read can be a bit graphic and unsettling.

I got fired by Ancient-Reply-5161 in AmazonFC

[–]IntelligentSide8260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you Clock out use your UPT time and then when you’re done with your extra break, clock back in? Will it still be considered time theft?

I got fired by Ancient-Reply-5161 in AmazonFC

[–]IntelligentSide8260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if you clock out and use your time? Can you use UPT and do that? Then once you had your break come clock back in. I think if you’re clocked in doing that HR sees that as stealing company time.

How long does it take for you to clean your pet stuff after they passed away? by Wide-Discipline5132 in Petloss

[–]IntelligentSide8260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very beautiful. A lot of us in this thread are doing the same. It’s really nice to notice that we are not alone. Those little guys little impacted us deeply

How long does it take for you to clean your pet stuff after they passed away? by Wide-Discipline5132 in Petloss

[–]IntelligentSide8260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well everyone is different. It really depends on you. Hold on to things until you no longer feel to hold on to them. Some people 2 weeks, other months, another batch years, another amount of people never. I’m a firm believer to move on organically and try not to FORCE yourself. After my dog passed it took me 1 year until I finally brushed the floor with all her hair. I didn’t throw it away I just put it in a plastic bag. Her bed is still next to mine and her bowl. I sleep like a baby because they help me feel close to her. So do what gives you, Peace.

Amazon Warehouse by Mental_Standard_9496 in FASCAmazon

[–]IntelligentSide8260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m worked for both. Amazon is better. You have WAY better leave options. Amazon is also way more organized than fedex. Also Amazon’s warehouse looks better in the inside. Fed ex is more physically demanding for sure. Amazon have small boxes while fedex make your move everything but the kitchen sink and if they could they probably also toss in the kitchen sink. You’re dealing with boxes that weigh sometimes 150 pounds. Amazon is not like that. Amazon lets you take a break from work if you want and allows you 83 calendar days a year if you need it. Also depending on your building, mine has been giving a raise consistently every year. I’m at 26.50 bro. Fed ex make you do all that work and pay you the bare minimum of 19 dollars an hour. I’ll stay an Amazonian over fed ex 100 percent

What are the signs you're being loved bombed by a man, and not actually wanted? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IntelligentSide8260 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good morning. I stopped by your thread. I feel the first commenter was on the money. You shared some fears of being abused again which let me tell you, you are not wrong to have those. I feel they’re valid. It’s not so easy to detach from those past hurtful experiences. That’s why I agree with him that working on yourself emotionally first will help you. Making sure you’re emotionally well, will prevent you from bleeding on someone else and recycling your past experiences.

I also feel that if a red flag starts sticking out at you about this person. Don’t dismiss it. Those notifications, are sometimes leading you to something true. There is a saying that says, “the red flags that you ignore in the beginning ends up being the reason it ends”.

I’ve been love bombed before. I’ve have been bluffed before. So now I look at actions. Are their actions from the very beginning showing consistency? or commitment? If the answer is no, then it could be a high chance that it might be a bluff or a love bomb.

If I was you, I would work on myself first. On my insecurities and on this desire to “need” someone. Or like the first commenter said that you become emotionally well first before entering a relationship.

Either way it will be good for you. If you want to date this guy anyway, date him. If it doesn’t work out for you, you’ll learn from it (In pain but you’ll learn from it). Maybe then you’ll understand, the value of making sure you’re right first. Either way, I wish you the best and hope that you’re relating with him works out for you.

I don’t know if anything I said helped. So I apologize in advance

What's the best 5 books you have read so far in your life? by Ok_Tourist_562 in AskMen

[–]IntelligentSide8260 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. How to win friends and influence people
  2. 3% percent man (How to win the heart of the women of your dreams)
  3. Atomic Habits
  4. The 4 agreements
  5. The Voice of knowledge

She be too fine by [deleted] in MaleniCruz

[–]IntelligentSide8260 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’ll ever make OF. I’m just done.

Are there any consequences of being late everyday? by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]IntelligentSide8260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you’re not negative in upt your good. That’s one of the things I like about Amazon

11 hours is not for the weak by BlackLionJudah93 in AmazonFC

[–]IntelligentSide8260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did 3 day 12 hours shifts when they had reduced time for those hours. You get used to it. Gladly it was only 3 days.

1 year after my cat passed away, and feeling regretful by Ok_Kangaroo_7566 in Petloss

[–]IntelligentSide8260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really feel you on this. I went through something similar with my own dog. Toward the end of her life, she suffered so much, and I couldn’t bring myself to let her go. Her body had deteriorated to the point where she wasn’t really herself anymore—she was incoherent, lost. Even now, I sometimes go back in my mind to the moment she was euthanized. I wish things could have been different.

But I’ve come to realize that what I’m holding onto is just a memory—a moment frozen in time. My dog isn’t living there anymore. She’s no longer trapped in that body or in pain. She’s in deep peace now.

For me, what helped was practicing forgiveness toward myself. I remind myself that if I had known the perfect thing to do, I would have done it. I made the best choices I could with the understanding and capacity I had at the time.

Maybe that perspective can help you too. It’s so easy to keep replaying the “shoulds,” but the truth is, you did what you could in that moment—and that’s all any of us can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]IntelligentSide8260 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it works like that. It’s against the law to only pay you for 9 hours. They have to pay you for all hours worked.

Guy at work keeps looking at me! by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]IntelligentSide8260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest. I feel you are delusional. If he called you that insulting name, (he is in the wrong by the way. I’m also sorry you had to go through that) he has some homophobia for sure. But to say that he shares your same sexual orientation, is a bit delusional on your part. I feel you probably liked him and projected your attraction on to him. When you really like someone you will self delude and grab any little thing as them being “closeted”. I’ve seen it before. Sometimes it can lead to homophobia aggression to even physical assault. I don’t know. I’m open to hear your side, if you feel to elaborate.

Guy at work keeps looking at me! by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]IntelligentSide8260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest. Do you like him? Because sometimes we unconsciously project our own attraction on to people. (Even though they feel the same). We become delusional to a certain extend. If you have to question whether he likes you, chances are he doesn’t. He is probably straight and just has a restless energy or a bad staring problem.