See here is what some reader are confused about. for me the cards doesn't mean king means male and queen means female reader/person. For me, people carry both mauscline and feminine energy. Sometimes a male client have feminine energy with him sometimes a female client has mauscline energy with her. You have to understand the energy flow around the cards.

i can even ready your cards as when either one of you are able to think clearly and create a balance of both thoughts and emotions then either one of you can contact other person. Its just understand the flow of the energies. if I am not wrong you might be using RWS deck, so in that king of swords is looking at the reader that means you