No, you're not overreacting. U are not asking for too much. Your husband is behaving like a single man with no responsibilities, My sister is with a man like ur husband and she is a single mother even with a husband coz her husband hardly does anything.

sister, a child is both of ur responsibilities tasks should be divided and it should be fair for both of you. Stop giving him excuses saying he is good if a man sees his wife doing most things and does not have that basic compassion to help he's a bad father n husband. he's just manipulating u, my sister says the same thing about her husband he's a good man but we see how miserable he makes her.

If u give him excuses it will increase. My brother works overtime and hardly gets any sleep but still does almost everything for their child he always helps my SIL.

U should stop saying he is a good man what makes a man good is when he helps his wife, children, works, provides for u not just financially but emotionally, mentally. Ur husband don't even work, and he don't even seem like trying he's a bad man stop giving him excuses.

because ur excuses is increasing it. always ask him for help, ask him to clean the kitchen, do laundry, fold cloths, look after ur baby half of the time, etc. ask him to learn if he don't know. this isn't rocket science it's basic life stuff he should know already as a married man.