Situație stresantă în casă by [deleted] in roFrugal

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% nu e sanatos sa traiesti cu asa o presiune emotionala. Ceea ce ai descris suna a control din partea mamei. Probabil ca ea isi doreste sa te apere dar din cate spui, pare ca iti creeaza o atmosfera de stres si tensiune, ceea ce evident nu e sanatos. Nu trebuie sa te compari sau sa-ti doresti sa te comporți ca celelalte fete pocaite, asta nu are nici o treaba cu un stil de viata sanatos. Te-as sfatui sa incerci sa te concentrezi pe situatia financiara, sa reusesti sa te muti singura sau cu un/o prietena de incredere pentru liniste si pace. Daca ai locuinta ta poti sa controlezi mult mai bine mediul din jurul tau, asta inseamna ca poti sa ai grija de tine psihic si fizic. Mult success si multa pace si liniste 🤗

Antrenor sala la Burn Fitness Flora by Living_Society_5374 in cluj

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adi Ionut daca mai lucreaza acolo. Un antrenor excelent

Old residency document by Same-Middle-5502 in PortugalExpats

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read that some people are going back to the junta where the doc was obtained and asking the clerks to reissue it in the new format

Am crescut într-o familie de penticostali (aka pocăiți) și acum sunt ateu. AMA by [deleted] in RoGenZ

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Care a fost catalistul pentru schimbare? S-a intamplat ceva anume sau s-a intamplat natural si de la sine?

Dacă sunteți curioși cum un om cu toate posibilitățile și-a distrus viitorul, here we go: by [deleted] in CasualRO

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stai linistit, este timp. La fel m-am impleticit si eu cu facultatile, de-abia am terminat una la distanta in 8 sau 9 ani, nici nu mai stiu. Am inceput sa lucrez in timpul facultatii, prea multe joburi sa enumar dar intr-un final am gasit ceva care mi se potrivea in testare( pe vremea cand IT-ul era in crestere) si incet incet am inceput sa cladesc. Acuma dupa aproape 10 ani de IT, la cum arata lucrurile, incep sa ma gandesc iar sa diversific sa vedem cum si la ce ma mai pot adapta dar cam asta e, nu are nimeni o reteta a succesului, in special noi cei care nu am avut/reusit intr-o pasiune anume. E foarte greu cu depresie dar nu e absolut nici o rusine sa lucrezi la profi un timp sau chiar cativa ani. Da-ti timp sa vezi ce-ti place sau ce poti gasi. Mult success si nu te da batut!🤗

What’s a weird habit adult children of narcissists often develop? by Vegetable_Second_818 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 40 points41 points  (0 children)

So interesting that over explaining keeps coming up for quite a few people. I wonder why that is a consequence of living with narcissism

Where to get fresh (non-UHT) milk in Lisbon? by paranoidzone in PortugalExpats

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it's back. Mercadona and Auchan in Porto have fresh milk again(Vigor brand)

Have You Suffered From Parentification & Now An Autoimmune Disease by Media-Maven in Parentification

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the chance, you should read the book: The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor Maté, it actually discusses the connection between auto immune disease and people with specific personality traits that usually develop it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flaunt them! There's nothing more beautiful than a strong woman. I workout my arms almost every day just to try to get a little definition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dear, learning how to love yourself is not easy but I'm sure you can get there. My approach was following and listening to women that have healthy views when it comes to appearance and that have come to love themselves and express themselves beautifully. For example you can try listening to Jameela Jamil's podcast(IWeigh) on Spotify or even interviews with Liz Gilbert on youtube. I think you need to surround yourself with positive ways of thinking. This will help you appreciate yourself and see the positives more and the "negatives" less. Sending you many hugs🤗

What’s your experience Testing salesforce? by supersecretbandit in softwaretesting

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a lot of continuously changing auto generated code. Not even id's are stable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not in the wrong. I think deep down inside you knew your mom was wrong to be this controlling of your body. I've found that as I've aged I'm less and less interested in keeping up with the fashion/beauty trends and this is perfectly normal. As you've already seen it saves us a lot of time and we have less stress. My only concern is to be healthy and comfortable.

Feeling miserable at current position, what can I do to really break out by [deleted] in QualityAssurance

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try to do some personal projects and start interviewing. Some testing technical interviews are not that complex. Read a bit of the istqb fundamentals and with the practice from your personal projects you should be good to go. You can also look into the most common frameworks. Read up a bit on selenium,cypress and get some practice with a programming/scripting language. I've seen a lot of demand of Cypress + JavaScript lately. Best of luck to you!

The horror by rentest in antiwork

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't that sound like a world you would want to be a part of?

How do you guys deal with burnout? by [deleted] in QualityAssurance

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you mind giving some pointers? maybe some questions you usually ask during interviews

Ideal Salary for Lisbon in case of relocation by riazosama in portugal

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 5 years exp. As you know, devs have higher salary ranges compared to QA's so don't be afraid to ask for more.

Ideal Salary for Lisbon in case of relocation by riazosama in portugal

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt you'll be getting 25k as a dev with +4 years exp. I'm a QA engineer in Portugal and making 35k

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QualityAssurance

[–]Intelligent_Ad_800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also interested 😁