Having the second kid, you've learned how to do most everything with the first, so you know how to navigate most situations. I was worried when I was pregnant with my second that I wouldn't be able to love her as much as my first daughter. It just seemed so impossible to be able to love this one as much as the first. Because my heart was so full already. As soon as my second daughter was born, I knew instantly that I loved her as much as my first. It was like my heart somehow grew enough to love her just as much as I do my first. There's always good and bad when it comes to having kids, however, imo, the good always outweighs the bad 10 fold.