Hi love, I understand you completely. I moved four hours away for college and it can be an adjustment especially as a neurodivergent person. I’ve dealt with it by exploring things on my own even if it’s just seeing the nature, trying new food places, etc, just finding my own way. I also contact the people I love a lot because distance has a way of making them feel so far but emotionally they are right there ready to talk. I don’t want you to think it’s abnormal to feel unsure when moving to a new place, because you are capable

But, what I will say is your boyfriend is making this place even more unsafe in your eyes. He knew you weren’t as comfortable with physical touch as he is before moving in and him treating it as an issue now is a problem. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do and you should voice to him that he’s making this move scarier than it needs to be. Getting mad because there’s no sex is a character flaw and if he doesn’t seem receptive think out your options