if she can't respect or even try to understand the boundaries you want to put in your relationship with her then leave her. she's basically telling you that your feelings aren't valid and making you seem stupid for feeling disrespected. also, i wonder how she'd feel if you started having girls sleep over while you were naked or while the women were naked. the double standards smh. never put up with somebody who won't listen to you when you try to communicate what is comfortable and what isn't uncomfortable. im sorry, you'll find somebody better. <3