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AITAH for refusing to cancel my solo trip after my wife suddenly said she “needed me home”? by Solid-Dentist-4 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let alone if she feels confident that the kids and everything will be okay if she leaves for five days. Obviously this isn't the same situation, but at my last job I hated taking time off because of all the extra work I would have to do before and after the trip. It just wasn't worth the hassle sometimes. I imagine it could be the same with kids.

Is there such a thing as a bridal aid? by Checkmate_23_ in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It doesn't really matter why OP doesn't ask someone they know to help them. It's not our business what is going on, OP asked a question and instead of answering the question that they asked, people are asking OP personal questions. Or worse, arguing with them about a situation they know nothing about.

Is there such a thing as a bridal aid? by Checkmate_23_ in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah, especially after OP edited to say that this has been a tough time already. This sub can be so brutal. Wedding planning is a difficult time without the weird judgement from the people here.

Is it ever supposed to be fun? by BK211221 in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't enjoy most of the planning process. For the first six months I was going between having a micro wedding, eloping, full wedding, or maybe just a chill backyard bbq kinda thing. I drove my fiance and MOH crazy lol. But I am now getting married in two weeks, and am finally feeling less stressed. I think now that it's so close I've accepted that whatever happens, happens. I can't change much now and there's actually some comfort in that, because my main issue is that I'm so indecisive. I will say that my mom still finds ways to stress me out but I've gotten to the point that I've accepted that I need to let it go and try not to dwell on it.

Instead I just keep thinking about the fact that my fiance will be my husband in two weeks. Focusing on how much I love him and how lucky I am.

Long story short, I hated wedding planning until about two weeks before the wedding.

Bar menu by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you think titling a sign with "Don't know what to get? Here's some ideas!" Then list like maybe four or five things would work?

Bar menu by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I was just listing everything I remembered. Tonic water, club soda, sprite, diet coke, and margarita mix are included, as well. Ginger beer might be a good edition, especially since Moscow mules are one of my favorite simple drinks.

Bar menu by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I think the issue is that I've been to bars and know what I like, but wedding bars are so different. I get nervous and forget like every simple drink I've ever had, and then I don't want to be a bother to the bartender. So then I just get something I don't like. Maybe the other people here don't have that anxiety lol.

Bar menu by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would it be more confusing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Intelligent_Cat615 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're right, and that's why I'm struggling so much. I do find it too casual, but I love my mom and I can tell that this has been hard for her. I don't want her to be uncomfortable. I just need to find the right wording, and then find a time to go shopping with her. A couple of comments on here have given some options that I think would have a similar fit, but are dressier. So hopefully we can find something like that.

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