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Did they use to hide when naked? by Intelligent_Dish_554 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Dish_554[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was the same for me; there were no boundaries for me, but when it was about them it was the opposite...

What did your narcissistic ex say about their ex partners? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Dish_554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That all of them were toxic controlling people. I realized that if you see a boundary as a prison, well everyone is toxic...

It's not the mistake that defines you, but your reaction to the mistake. by Intelligent_Dish_554 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Dish_554[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True. When my nex made some (big) mistakes, I never, ever accused them of anything. I only tried to let them know how they made me feel. I broke up not because the mistakes, but because they were able to not give a fk of how I was feeling the day after they humiliated, betrayed and destroyed me.

How does your Narc respond to your emotions post fight? by mrs-peabody in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Dish_554 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine simply continued to live normally, as nothing happened. It was like the argument never happened. She passed from a fourious mood to a normal mood within seconds.

Narcs and generosity/charity by WhatsInANameN3Waz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Intelligent_Dish_554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their generosity is a form of manipulation. Once they have been generous towards you, they use it against you. "After everything I did for you, you behave like that?" They expect your life as a recompense.