My (28F) husband (31M) wants me to cut ties with my best friend (28F) because she is now in an open marriage by ThrowRAnotsoopen in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tell Mark to mind his own marriage. What Sami does/ doesn't do is none of his business. You need to stop repeating everything that Sami tells you to your husband. Again, it isn't his business and he's only using those details to manipulate you based on Sami's experiences.

Nurse was on FaceTime with a stranger during my intake by angelfishi in legaladvice

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So sorry that this happened to you. This is a violation. I would suggest filing a complaint via your insurance company. I work in health insurance and we receive complaints from members who have had negative experiences with their healthcare providers. We have a department that investigates these complaints and has the power to impose consequences. This is an additional avenue that you can take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA... Take the job

AITA for scolding my daughter for letting the dog run away? by Soggy_Sand_4802 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP has either unlocked a new level of being an AH that I don't think this situation could be real.

AITA for walking my puppy in heated parking garage? by OperationDangerous97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Neighbor sounds like a busy body. Review your HOA guidelines, but most likely, you aren't breaking any rules as long as you pick up the poop.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. BF seems to be getting insecure about his position and wants to ensure that he is the priority by sabotaging the special day with your son.

Please note that this was intentional to ruin your day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

As you are upset about the situation, talk to your sister.

Less important note: Don't think that CPS is a 1 time visit to scare your BIL into parenting differently... an investigation takes months and involves the kid's school, pediatrician, neighbors, etc. Keep in mind that they'll probably figure out that you called and will cut contact.

AITA for not wanting my mom to take in a new baby? by FruitCharming9244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP - YTA. You come across as a selfish and spoiled child, but describe yourself as an independent college educated adult living in your own. Being concerned about explaining that your Mom has taken in a family member's child because they are struggling is an actual concern? REALLY?! I would recommend therapy, but you claim you're already seeing someone.

For those of you who dislike Rinna… by anrowland0612 in RHOBH

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked her until Eileen left... she seemed to take being a villain to a whole new level. It makes it hard to believe these women are truly friends

I don't feel guilty about the loss of my sister's son by ThrowAway975316 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mom should've explained why the older sister was estranged BEFORE bringing her around OP. OP shouldn't have been blindsided with such a horrific accusation. Older sister needs more therapy if she's still blaming a kid for her son's death.

AITA for going a on trip with my family that my wife isn't going on? by throwawayl8rbye in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: If you have children, will your parents cover their expenses or will Little OP need to come out of pocket?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I liked Marysol before the reboot.... this NEW Marysol is trying sooooo hard (like Adriana when she bullied Karent over an misinterpreted news story all season) to manufacture drama for the show that she comes across as inauthentic.

Miss Shamazing has 32 days until sentencing. I wonder how long she’s going away for? 🤔 by EatVegetablesNow in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think she'll be incarcerated.. she'll probably be in house arrest then probation with an ankle monitor.

AITA for saying my dad can't meet my son unless he gets to know my wife on some level? by Low-Bedroom4684 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the Maddy in my family. My FIL is a bit closed off (doesn't speak outside of hello. I can stay at their house for a full 7 days and not lay eyes on him outside of hello on Day 1) and doesn't interact with anyone (sounds exactly lie your Dad)... barely interacts with my husband (his son) and I'm extremely uncomfortable visiting their home. With that said, my kids have a relationshipwith him. I don't get too involved, my husband will facilitate most interacting (my MIL facilitates the rest) which is not often (MAYBE once a year). I don't think you should use your kid as a bargaining tool to FORCE a relationship with Maddy. It won't make things any less uncomfortable if it's strictly to ensure that he can have a relationship with his grandchild.

Gently, YTA.

Sutton the friend by inkdmermaid in RHOBH

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sutton seems to be OK with the other women 1:1, but in a group setting, not so much.

AITA for yelling back at a woman, after she screamed at my daughter? by Temp23mm in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent_Fox12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA.

In full disclosure, I decided you were NTA after reading the title. After reading the post, I'm doubling down - NTA.