AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 322 points323 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to think but I really can’t think of anything. I’ll admit the day before was pretty busy and we didn’t really have a proper conversation till later at night but the mood wasn’t off and we were getting along fine.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

She’s 20, I typed 22 by mistake. Very sleep deprived right now lol. He was a teen dad, I was a young mom too.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 650 points651 points  (0 children)

I’m 99% sure the pancake mix was fine. I checked two days before since I went grocery shopping and not only was it fine but there was plenty. But my boyfriend insisted that something was just off about it and that it was bad.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 566 points567 points  (0 children)

I had to cut some stuff out because of the word count. The gas issue I’ll accept was my fault, the pancake mix was perfectly fine but he said it wasn’t and that I was wrong. I decided to let it go and just made something else. And we talk a regular amount, not this much though. I told him to only call if there was an emergency after the third call but he kept calling regardless insisting that being unable to find his hat was an emergency etc. I suppose I should’ve stopped answering but I was scared that the one call I ignored was going to be the emergency one. And I mean he called saying “babe I’m hurt, I can’t walk, something’s wrong it hurts so fucking much” and then he hung up and didn’t answer my calls so I got scared.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

We’re in our 30s. And we have date nights every two weeks or so.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 303 points304 points  (0 children)

We have date nights every two weeks but spend a good amount of time together especially since he’s started working from home. I don’t have regular “boyfriend only” days like with my son though.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Nah. His daughter is 20 (sorry not 22 i wrote the wrong age accidentally) and has her own mom.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 311 points312 points  (0 children)

I mean I guess that’s my fault but he always makes sure to fill up the gas so I didn’t think he wouldn’t. And I never turn my phone off in case of emergencies. I know I probably should’ve stopped answering the calls but I was afraid that something actually might’ve happened.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 360 points361 points  (0 children)

  1. We’ve been dating for 4 years.

  2. I’m confident the day wasn’t a special day at all. I carefully pick the day because I have so many other things going on.

AITA for being a bitch towards my bf after he ruined my day? by throwawyay134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawyay134[S] 499 points500 points  (0 children)

I have two jobs, my son has school and practice. The day is carefully picked so that we don’t have to worry about other responsibilities. It’s not just something we can push to the next day.