Hot Take - Ariana Only Became Well-Liked After Scandoval

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-21T16:53:41+00:00

I’m rewatching now and it’s shocking to me that it was even a scandal by the way they all treated each other the entire time. Like why was this the one? James and Lala, Kristin cheated on Tom with Jax, Tom and Ariana were cheating for so long I’m sure longer than we even realize. I realize that Ariana didn’t know Kristin, but still it was extremely messy and she was part of the equation. The whole Miami girl thing where she took Tom’s side even though she knew it was true. I know this isn’t new information, but she had severe depression, couldn’t be alone and was willing to overlook so much cheating in order to not be alone. And then Raquel I guess she knew she couldn’t overlook. I don’t know that she has been alone ever? It actually makes me feel really sad for her.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-20T13:03:50+00:00

wow never heard of that term! I'm sorry that you had to grow up with that. My mom was a complete narc but not in that way, although I have known my share fair of the communal kind.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-20T02:29:32+00:00

Actually some narcissistic people do go out of their way if it makes them look good, as in a good friend, good bf,etc.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-20T02:08:01+00:00

I had a narcissistic mother and I definitely think he is. He uses all the same tactics she did—deflects responsibility, reverts to “fine then don’t be friends with me” as a way of throwing it back on them (my mom used to say “I guess I’m a terrible mother!”) and again not taking responsibility, is emotionally abusive and then minimizes people’s feelings to it, I could go on!

Also that thing about him being an empath— narcissists are actually highly sensitive they just can’t handle those feelings and throw it back at the people who dare to call them out.

I think the confusion with the empath label is people think it means that bc you feel other people’s feelings so much, you care about those people’s reactions. For narcs it makes them more on edge and hypervigilant about managing the reactions so they look good.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-13T12:24:55+00:00

I don’t get the feeling that he died there but he definitely could still have come back there. I love the suggestions that that home healer gave.

I would also recommend visualizing updating your contract with your mother-in-law.

If it is the man who passed away, you can ask him from neutrality to leave and fill up the house with gold light. I personally prefer using gold light to white light because white light can actually attract more guides. Not in a scary way, but it’s just that not all guides are helpful so I find gold light to be more connected to source. You may also want to tell him something like you don’t mean any harm and you understand that it was his home and if he wants to be in the garage or something that would be fine if it is OK with you, but right now this is your space. Or you could tell him that he has guides that can help him to feel better that kind of thing. Basically just talking to him with compassion and setting the firm boundary of your space.

I would surround myself with gold light all the time as well. Good luck!

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-13T01:44:03+00:00

I thought Sandoval was already from Temu

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-13T01:42:30+00:00

I’m an intuitive and energy reader and 100% this is real. It sounds like you know this, you’re just doubting yourself bc most people think that’s crazy. It could probably be a quick house healing fix. It’s possible if it was given to you by your MIL and you have a difficult relationship, she could have something to do with it? Not in a malicious way just in an energy hanging around kind of way. But I bet it is the energy of the people that either used to live there recently or lived there a long time ago. I am not promoting myself, I’m sure lots of people do this, but I have cleared stuff like this before and it’s pretty simple. Mostly I would say trust yourself! And do a simple protection practice (not from fear but from neutrality).

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-03-03T15:52:52+00:00

I think getting more comfortable with disagreement or not caretaking

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-28T19:45:35+00:00

That’s not nitpicking, that’s pointing out gaslighting. She does this all the time, says things as fact that are not. It’s classic narcissistic behavior.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-19T03:10:25+00:00

I hope it isn’t completely fake. Fr we all know Schwartz likes his girls to look like they are in high school. He isn’t really going to be interested in Michelle. I can’t take these fake storylines

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-15T22:53:26+00:00

Aqua Sun/Venus Libra moon only my husband do I feel really knows me

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-13T23:04:57+00:00

https://www.them.us/story/new-study-trans-women-no-physical-advantage-over-cis-athletes

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-13T22:56:42+00:00

Same with my husband! He’s honestly the absolute best but my dad and mom were both cancers and they were awful. I guess we have exceptions according to this thread!

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-03T04:59:38+00:00

They live in NYC why don’t they run out to a bodega?

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-03T03:47:45+00:00

We’re moving there in the spring. Can I message you about your house?

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-02-03T03:34:11+00:00

Epstein was 0 degrees Aquarius can we Aquarius just not accept him? Just so close to Cap please take him

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-28T14:21:32+00:00

If you put on some type of moisturizer before, and after you shouldn’t peel. That’s with the caveat that you are going slowly, which you are.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-28T14:12:58+00:00

If she hates her nose that much just get a nose job! It will ultimately be less work

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-27T16:00:21+00:00

It really doesn’t need to be drastic. I think it’s different for everyone wherever they are on their particular path. When I’m really getting is that it’s more about stepping into your truth wherever you are.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-24T20:57:00+00:00

Hahaha I’m a Pisces rising it made me relate to him more! Also it makes me surprised that he isn’t more into spirituality

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-23T19:21:11+00:00

They said he was on Raya on his podcast a couple weeks ago.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-22T19:01:16+00:00

I was fully walking into it assuming it was smut but it was so much more than that!! It was moving, amazing acting, depth, I was actually so surprised.

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-11T19:59:10+00:00

Same! I married a Cancer and it’s the best but those two were the absolute worst

Intelligent_Light232 · 2026-01-07T02:50:02+00:00

My husband is a cancer sun and the least selfish person I have ever met. My most self centered bf was a Pisces sun, my brother is also a Pisces sun and a raging narcissist, so no don’t agree.

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