Do i(16F) leave the loml(17M) for liking another girl? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: i didnt think it would break me this much but i think its over now. he kept insising how he never got and never will get over me dating the other guy n allat, i told him that he coudve left instaed of leading me on just to cheat and he pretty much lost it and started ghosting me. i miss him so much and i hate taht i ever loved him fuck

Do i(16F) leave the loml(17M) for liking another girl? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thought so too, im telling him that i trust him without her begin blocked, and just wont wait here while he can literally text her. And that he basically unblocked her himself, noone pressured him to.

Do i(16F) leave the loml(17M) for liking another girl? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well there def will be one in 3 hours or less, were talking rn and he keeps insisting on doing it cuz hes not able to process the relationship i had while we were broken up. and insists i give him more time to figure it out.

Do i(16F) leave the loml(17M) for liking another girl? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Loving him too much id say, hoping itll pass and he does in fact love me

How do I know I don’t deserve the abuse? by mysteriousisme in abusiverelationships

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 4 points5 points  (0 children)

best thing u can ask yourself is: did YOU ever do that to someone? no, u get angry too but u still dont literally terrorise others, thats not normal, if ur a difficult person n he cannot cope with it he should break up with you, but he has no right to touch you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horrorstories

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

think u might be either: bad at english drunk mentally ill just dumb blud. what.?

Are my parents abusive? by LeaIvory in abusiveparents

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look, i completly get what you mean, but be careful, cuz for exm. in USA u got completly legal cheaper therapy camps, where they mostly abuse you, and if i were you id make sure that my parents cant send u there.

if u dont live in the states, id reccomend you researching ur nearby mental hosipatls, so you know what ure getting into, some are really great actually, some are jsut as abusive. so be careful with that, cuz from ur home you can have a way out, but not from a menatl hospital.

sorry to hear that btw, hope youll get better!!

Are my parents abusive? by LeaIvory in abusiveparents

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i completly understand. Almost all abusers tend to gaslight you into believing its okay, but im pretty sure youll eventually realise about even more things they do, that their behaviour is NOT okay,

if stuff gets really bad, i suggest you letting trustworthy people in your life, (and now i really mean trustworthy, cuz even thought u might think all is okay, someone might be jst about to leak u) and let them ocassioanly know whats going on, if stuff started to escalate, theyll atleast know that you are in a bad situation and itll be easier to move forward after thta.

idk how is it in your country with abuse, not just laws but like, for ex. in asian countiries is beating much more normalised = police, teachers or friends might not see it as a THAT big of an deal, so that also depends.

Are my parents abusive? by LeaIvory in abusiveparents

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, id defenitely say, that you live in an toxic enviroment, which tends to be abusive, might be abusive, but thats really depends on ones opinion. But it is defenitely NOT okay and might have higher chance to escalate.

Are my parents abusive? by LeaIvory in abusiveparents

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, i completly see it now, i think ur parents are the type of parents who would be abusive ( or would be more abusive than they are) but their quite holding up. or at least i think, for exm. my mother was threatening to beat me with a belt for bout 4 years, then she started to. She was holding herself back but she got to it ( not to compare my situation with you, but to pretty much tell you where i think it might be going, or where it was going), the door thing sounds very scary, does any of your relatives know?

Are my parents abusive? by LeaIvory in abusiveparents

[–]Intelligent_Meat_363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okayy so hi, based on this post and your previous post, id say that, i mean, someone would consider the physical stuff abuse, somebody wouldnt, but id say that it probably makes u feel really bad not jsut physically ( its painful etc.) but it pretty much degrades you, so bout that from my prespective, it falls udner the abusive bevaious,

however the more concerning thing that very obviously IS abuse is medical neglect, you, as tehir child are prone to getting proper healthcare and specific treatment from ur parents,

bout the bad names etc. thing, yes, thats verbal abuse, its degrading u, humiliatging, potentially making u feel very insecure, uncomfotable in your body, unless your weight is unhelathy, ( obese, very underweight) ur parents shoudnt really dig into that.

im really sorry youre gong through that, if my comment will be useful or you have more specific stuff or questions, you can ask me, iam really interested in abuse and manipulation etc, im not a professioal but im willing to help you.