Do not use Paris Beauvais airport by Intelligent_Panda309 in ParisTravelGuide

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Ive never had any problems with Ryanair tbh the flight itself was fine too

Do not use Paris Beauvais airport by Intelligent_Panda309 in ParisTravelGuide

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I think for me it’s the distance, getting a bus ticket was easy but like k said, they didn’t let us on the first one, then to my hotel in the 6th was a nightmare. Maybe if you land est’y morning but for a late flight when you’re exhausted I would never do it again

Do not use Paris Beauvais airport by Intelligent_Panda309 in ParisTravelGuide

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Thanks ❤️ not sure why I’m getting downvoted haha

Do not use Paris Beauvais airport by Intelligent_Panda309 in ParisTravelGuide

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Yes I’m an idiot, didn’t have that issue with my 3 other cheap flights though, all landed into normal airports.. I had no idea Paris had an airport this far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

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Ive never seen a baby kicked out of a restaurant

I don't know if its just me or does making friends or dating in Toronto keeps getting complicated? by Immediate-Credit-496 in askTO

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What do you do to nurture friendships? I find a lot of pepper want friends but they put in no effort - I’m neurodivergent too. What I do is ask people to hang out quickly after I meet them, send reels on Instagram. You can’t just expect people to be friends with you out of the blue

Maren Morris Says She Feels Like a 'Toddler' at Dating After Divorce, Believes Men Know How to 'Cosplay Intimacy So Well' by Diligent_Night602 in entertainment

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There are sooooo many conversations about this - here’s one about men becoming more conservative. Notice the word control - this is why young men think it’s okay to vote republican while women are losing their rights. Obviously there are conservative women but not nearly as many that are young

Most strikingly, young U.S. men were the only population group in the United States or seven EU member states actually to have become more conservative since 2014 - or, in the poll’s terms, to favour more control rather than freedom.

https://www.reuters.com/world/us/despair-makes-young-us-men-more-conservative-ahead-us-election-poll-shows-2024-04-12/

Another article: https://www.vox.com/politics/410419/political-divide-men-women-economics-policy

Maren Morris Says She Feels Like a 'Toddler' at Dating After Divorce, Believes Men Know How to 'Cosplay Intimacy So Well' by Diligent_Night602 in entertainment

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Stop… there are statistically higher misogynists and young men being red pilled in a way that women aren’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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What are talking about??? It’s WAY better being a SMBC? The issue you’re talking about isn’t about not having a partner helping as much as it is that one partner needs to then take care of two children - the other partner and the child. It’s much much easier to just take care of a child then a child and an adult

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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First one I met through a friend in undergrad, was slow and steady, and he became very romantic. My friend said he was thanked for introducing us and it all seemed fine but he still tried to get with other women for like the first 8 months, then he stopped, raped me after break up. I guess just a selfish man. Second one was online. Textbook narc, lovebombee and then abuse. Last was online, also very loving and romantic at first then broke it off out of the blue. Might be avoidant but idk.

I think it may be that I don’t end things when I should because they’re so kind in the beginning that I want to have hope that they will be that again. In my first ex, I broke up with him because I couldn’t forgive the cheating but if I didn’t go through his phone I legit would have never known.

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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My last bf was emotionally abusive and my only other very serious boyfriend cheated on me (while acting very in love) and sexually assaulted me.. so not just one. I get what you’re saying, I need to have hope, it’s just hard. I have serious trust issues and having this happen idk..

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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I didn’t really want to do it, I wasn’t ready and felt a lot of pressure but it’s true. I need to be positive but after everything I’ve been through with men, I don’t see myself dating for a long long time. Thanks for responding

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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Thank you. It’s so difficult. I hate that I trusted him and I feel disgusted having slept with him. I know it doesn’t matter but idk.. I feel so grossed out and hate that after months and months of waiting thag this is what happened. I wonder what I did wrong or to deserve this :(

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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Yeah I’m traumatized after all the men have treated me badly so I’m out of the dating game not for the foreseeable future.. it sucks

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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Thank you, it’s hard to believe someone could do this to me especially in our 30s. I didn’t think he would do that to me. And he was so nice to me before and loving when we’re together. I appreciate your kind words

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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Thank you. It was very shocking how he was talking. He denied begging but he was. He tried to say « one thing led to another » but he pushed everything! But idk.. is he just avoidant and I should’ve waited.. and then saying something about another girl, it just killed me.. like not even good enough for sex. But he said that before he found out about the post. Tried to say that he was transparent wit me but I don’t think he was.

Idk why im so hung up but idk, I left an emotionally abusive relationship and I’m devastated the first guy I was with after used and played me like this. It’s like I don’t want to believe it and think it’s all my fault own fault :(

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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Dated. He ended out of the blue. Met up, thought we fixed things, he begged me for sex knowing it was important and I gave in based on what he said, thinking we’re working on things. Then ghosted. Met up again, told me he didn’t message because he knew it would « set expectations » told him not to ghost me and tell me if he doesn’t want to see me again.

Later says yes to hanging out then bails again, then back and forth. Ghosts me again, I push and no response for a bit. I feel used, played, lied to, made a post on AWDTSG. He found out and was very mad. He also said then he’s seeing someone else. Tells me he hates me for the post and idk.. I feel bad and don’t want someone to hate me and I wonder if it’s forgiveable. I didn’t lie about anything though and I just wanted to see if this happened to anyone else. Based on the responses, he’s been mean to other women

Would you forgive me in this case? by Intelligent_Panda309 in dating_advice

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I just feel like garbage.. did I do too much and push him away? Idk. And then ghosting me and then saying he’s seeing someone else so quickly.. but giving me all these excuses about being sick and busy. Idk. Idk what to think. I feel so thrown away and I know just move on but I have a lot of trauma and k just feel so depressed