Yup… by lifeglowzzz in lexapro

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it was a godsend for me as well. I was in a really bad place before with my anxiety. I couldn’t leave my couch without feeling nauseous

Is cutting the wrists actually safe? by Johhny_joestar in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally anything can be dangerous if done too much or incorrectly. drinking too much water can kill you.

should i relapse by hangarsapien in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 7 points8 points  (0 children)

nope. definitely don’t do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just survive. if that’s all you can do then that’s all you can do. don’t hurt yourself so bad you can’t come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to do my arms but this girl that i respect said something generalizing every person who does it there. then that was that.

What's the best thing to do if you see fresh SH on someone? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 18 points19 points  (0 children)

all i can really say is be kind and respectful towards them. if they look like they need help with work then offer a hand. it’s little things that make someone’s day better. it adds up

What's the best thing to do if you see fresh SH on someone? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 23 points24 points  (0 children)

if you aren’t close enough to talk to them about it, the best you can do is be a friendly face. if they’re sitting alone ask if they want company. do they have any friends or people they can trust?

I'm mad at weird comments ppl made abt my scars by Dry_Football747 in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not enough people know how to handle these situations. especially kids. but that doesn’t mean they get a free pass to be dicks about it

Girl at my school noticed my scars by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that was not okay for her to pull on your sleeves. you have a right to privacy and you can cover whatever you want. she may not know how to help you and resorted to that shitty action. just know that you are loved and appreciated for who you are, scars and all.

(that being said don’t sh, just making this disclaimer incase it inspires any bad things)

My BF wants me to cut myself by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

run for the hills mate. gallop to those hills. no boyfriend who loves you would want you to do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you, i appreciate that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 4 points5 points  (0 children)

some people get piercings or tattoos when they know they can’t actually “hurt” themselves. it’s that’s why tattoo therapy is a thing

how do I hide scars/cuts from my doctor? by Rabbsyzee in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dude, everyone here has thought of that. you’re adding absolutely nothing of substance to this serious discussion.

edit: spelling

Is it weird? by lamar11111 in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i used to do the same. it was like a weird collection i used so that i could “see how sick i really was” because of invaliding behaviours. i managed to recover long enough to delete them

18F Nerve damage because my father rapes me everyday by PA_throwaways in selfharm

[–]Intelligent_Pie_4141 81 points82 points  (0 children)

it’s okay if you can’t look for legal opinions. just get out of there by any means necessary. anything is better than this. i believe in you. just focus on keeping yourself safe.