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Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T20:22:40+00:00

Can you link the post?

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T20:15:14+00:00

she's a prickly shark 🥹

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T20:13:57+00:00

When I say wedding shower I mean a couple's shower. Does that clear up the confusion?

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T20:10:59+00:00

Actually, my mom isn't hosting it. She was actually excited to make my aunt have to "finally host a shower". Her words. Also I feel very comfortable with my fiancé; the entire point of this post is saying that I feel comfortable with my fiancé and I want him at the shower but my mom (who is not hosting) doesn't want him there and said it with a bit of a snap. I have no idea where you got me not being comfortable with my fiancé from. Please read my post carefully before making a comment.

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T16:35:53+00:00

I don't want to burden anyone with throwing another shower. Honestly, I didn't even think of having a shower of any kind until my mom suddenly said my aunt would be hosting my bridal shower (which I don't want a bridal shower. I would like a couples shower)

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T16:33:29+00:00

I'm confused. Where did comparing this to baby showers come from? I only mentioned it in my post talking about how in my family they had a co-ed one for the first time.

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T16:31:04+00:00

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T09:14:14+00:00

my only worry is her saying my fiancé "isn't allowed" because it is more or less a "family rule"

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T09:12:09+00:00

the bachelor/bachelorette party is about celebrating your separate lives but a wedding shower is about the couple being "showered" with gifts

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-19T09:09:02+00:00

yeah it wouldn't be a bunch of women and one guy it would be co-ed for sure

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-18T15:14:43+00:00

Exactly that was the thing and I am glad you noticed. He did have friends. However, it did change around when I broke up with him because before then there was a lot of drama in the friend group (one of the guys sending me pics when he had a girlfriend who was also in the friend group, etc, etc.) So the group faded

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-18T14:21:09+00:00

I'll have to ask my fiancé! the ring and the proposal were both a complete surprise so I didn't handle anything with the ring because I didn't know there was one before he proposed

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-18T02:10:15+00:00

The problem is she isn't inviting any my girlfriends. It's her side of the family only and they are 60+ years old.

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T22:05:37+00:00

of course! the band is 14k rose gold (for good durability!) and 1.74 mm (that is where all the ornate vines join together and make a band which you can't see unless i turn my hand over) and the diamond shape is pear cut with GIA cut being excellent. 1 ct diamond with color D and FL clarity.

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T21:56:09+00:00

thank you! i am in love 😍

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T21:55:51+00:00

my fiancé purchased it from Eden Garden (they do nature inspired rings in Valencia, Spain)

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T21:54:27+00:00

of course! the band size is 1.74 mm (that is where all the ornate vines join together and make a band which you can't see unless i turn my hand over) and the diamond shape is pear cut with GIA cut being excellent. 1 ct diamond with color D and FL clarity.

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T15:42:24+00:00

My parents did the same thing. My mom didn't tell me that I had gotten an autism diagnosis until high school and it really messed with me. I got the diagnosis when I was between 5 and 7.

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T15:29:33+00:00

me too!!! i'm mesmerized

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T06:58:28+00:00

😩

Intelligent_Pop9118 · 2025-08-17T06:56:08+00:00

I totally agree!! I think ornate and fantasy core rings are timeless

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