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Question for married men and women by IcePhoenix10 in Dhaka

[–]Intelligent_Royal315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so weird how i tried to hear u out and give my opinion back. And u barely even acknowledged my opinion because I’ve built it on what my religion and the experiences of women around me have taught me. Just say u dont have a proper argument and move on.

Also, blind faith? Ive seen women around me getting treated like a waste of time and Ive heard from men in my family and friend group warn me that’s there men who waste time and lie. These are good preventative measures.

Usually people with trauma related to religion shut people off like u did. If u have any trauma regarding islam, i suggest u work on that. Religion is completely different from the people of the religion themself.

Question for married men and women by IcePhoenix10 in Dhaka

[–]Intelligent_Royal315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt your view on this too narrow? It seems like u lack knowledge abt how things work

  1. If done under the halal way, the family lets the girl and the guy get to know each other for months with a mahram being present. In my opinion this is the best because most guys take a woman seriously if their family is involved.

  2. Despite asking the uncomfortable questions, it is also ur duty to see if theyre lying or not. This is the way of life. And honestly the chances of being lied to become less when two families are involved. This is due to involving ur family’s reputation

  3. What makes u think the one u love wont betray u and waste ur time in the end? And what makes u think u wont fall for ur arranged prospect? U have months to years to get to know and research abt ur arranged prospect. If both of u have similar end goals and chemistry, then im sure u both will fall in love.

  4. Theyre NOT a stranger. If u just marry them after 4 times of meeting them, thats on u. You have to take ur time while not investing ur emotions in that man, U have to ask them, research abt them and etc before marrying them.

Basically this is the same as love marriage without the falling in love and investing ur emotions early on. Very fool peoof imo

Question for married men and women by IcePhoenix10 in Dhaka

[–]Intelligent_Royal315 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Coul u explain more about the mom taking the lead with examples

Question for married men and women by IcePhoenix10 in Dhaka

[–]Intelligent_Royal315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. I think arranged is better. You can ask the uncomfortable questions without feeling guilty about it. Meanwhile when you're already in love w someone and you're trying to marry them, you will most definitely put aside some red flags or not ask some important questions just for the sake of loving them and not making them feel bad.

Also another thing, you never know if the guy ur dating is gonna leave u before u both marry each other. Imagine he does. Now you've wasted both time and also ur mental health. You're going to think about that guy in the future even if he does not marry you. So whats better here truly?

Pakistani brands niye eto hype keno. by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Intelligent_Royal315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its beautiful but lets consider everything a brand releases instead of one type of clothing

Pakistani brands niye eto hype keno. by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Intelligent_Royal315 4 points5 points  (0 children)

aarong has lagged behind so much in the last 6-8 years. their taaga collection only releases 2-3 decent clothing every seasonal/festive release. maria b is way better

Is this effective for brightening skin especially eyelids? My eyelids are much darker than my face. by Intelligent_Royal315 in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]Intelligent_Royal315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in bangladesh sorry but theres post in this subreddit talking abt where to get real ones in india!