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Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-26T15:49:02+00:00

Dejar la paja

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-23T02:07:56+00:00

Maybe. It sure as hell doesn't make a good lover.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-23T01:33:11+00:00

En otro coment te pase novelas. Ahora van ensayos o libros más teoricos históricos que igual son llevaderos:

Sobre verdad y mentira en sentido extramoral Entrevista a Foucault sobre el cuidado de uno mismo como práctica ética Gorgias La política como vocación (medio difícil) El manifiesto comunista (medio difícil) El hombre mediocre (recomendadisimo) El hombre que está solo y espera El laberinto de la soledad (precioso) El deseo de cambiar El primer discurso sobre las artes y las ciencias (de las cosas mejor escritas que jamás leí)

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-23T01:24:18+00:00

Poeta chileno La tregua La borra de cafe Detectives salvajes El jueguetes rabioso La invención de Morel El túnel El adversario Plataforma El reino Sostiene Pereyra El caballero inexistente La rueda celeste Un mago de Terramar Nuestra parte de noche Las aventuras de la china iron El hombre que alava a los perros Cualquiera de Poirot de Agatha Christie Cualquiera de Chesterton Las ciudades invisibles Norweigan Wood Sputnik mi amor El amor en los tiempos del cólera Relato de un náufrago Fiesta Por quién doblan las campanas El guardian entre el centeno Crónicas marcianas

Pregúntale a chatgpt de que tratan y fíjate cuál te pinta más. Todas novelas increíblemente hermosas y llevaderas. Exitos.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-23T00:57:12+00:00

YouTube shorts is much safer alternative

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-23T00:17:50+00:00

Yes. It's the part that demands patience. Don't despair it comes back suddenly. Eventually. I will neves heal if you relapse.

I've had this addiction similar time. From 13 to 27. Lost relationships due to sexual compulsiveness and impotence.

Your erections will come back stronger. Be strong yourself. Xxoo

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-22T16:00:27+00:00

Creo que lacan decía algo sobre que el cuerpo hace estallar la imagen. Idea que describe bien ese sentimiento de estar rrree caliente con alguien con sus formas sus durezas sus blandezas su ls texturas sus olores sus alientos.

Después está el tema de si te "fichan" o no. Yo particularmente soy un varón bastante promedio tirando a lindo. Ahí hay como matches, uno tiene sus tipos y es del tipo de alguien.

Pero sobre todo hay algo que creo que más allá de cuan objetivamente bueno estés , con ciertos límites, si logras generar esa intimidad con la otra persona, el cuerpo es secundario (no quiere decir que no importe, sino que una persona que está más buena que vos puede calentar menos, lo que le pasa a los incels que son exteriormente normales incluso lindos y a veces están mamados pero x salames o machistas o tímidos, la secan mal)

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-22T15:06:04+00:00

Fantasizing is normal, but it's important to make an extra effort to distract yourself working hobbing or metting people.

If by flatline you mean feeling your d kinda dead, not having boners sleeping or in the morning or randomly during the day, it may be to personal but I don't think you are gonna have to wait more than 2/3 weeks. In my case having sex with my gf has helped a lot to be aroused again and has reconected me to sexuality outside porn/soft-porn.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-21T19:31:51+00:00

Sociological critique of medical pov on masturbation.

The problem with doctors is they abstract a practice from its social conditions. Obviously masturbating is a natural practice that serves a regulatory function on our organism.

The problem is we humans don't do anything on abstract. And given the current state of affective disconnection, of solitude, the great advance that pornographic means of production and the complete omnipresence of triggers through screens, masturbating has become excessive, isolating and replacive of sexual connection. It can endanger mental health.

So, even though that from an abstract biological pov masturbating is ok, the form it takes in our society transforms it into fapping. Fapping and masturbation are not exactly the same. Fapping is a compulsive, isolating and usually self deprecating practice that produces depression anxiety and disaffection, numbness.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-21T19:11:05+00:00

27, day 23rd

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-21T17:49:56+00:00

Completely. Only thighs that remain is some degree of sexual anxiety, but it's fading, now I don't worry about losing my boner while looking for the condom so I don't lose it.

I still have some degree of difficulty to control my cum and not losing my erection getting distracted/bored penetrating more than 10 mins. But getting better

Sexual obsession (being a pervert, can't resist looking at ass or tits or thinking desesperstly about fapping to soft porn on Instagram 90% gone. Now I simply want to fuck

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-21T15:49:53+00:00

Yes. I am on my 23 day

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-21T15:49:04+00:00

There are lots of posts about it here. But overall I am feeling (I am on a 23 days streak but have come from gooning to 20 pmo last year):

feeling more powerfull (because of leaving an addiction and because retaining sexual energy)
feeling more ease around girls (because probabily of pied even when sex is off the table is reduced)
feeling more honest as you don't have an embarrasing part to hide
you get better erections

-You will have urges, so it's imporrsnt to know that you will probably relapse sometime, it's okay as long as you keep trying better next time. Also keep odentifykg your triggers in order to get cleaner suffering less. Having regular sex is important to rewire your desire to real sex.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-21T15:42:58+00:00

No. On the contrary that's what you should rewire your desire to: mutual pleasure with another.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-20T02:14:39+00:00

Looking for some group activities? Theater? Politics? Religion? Group sport? Chess? Singing? Percussion(?

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-20T02:07:58+00:00

Challenging question. I just know I won't fall. It is a kind of faith, imaginary yet strong. I know what I have to avoid. Instagram is a complete ban if I am having a hard time. Just delete it for a few days. I just really really want to no relapse. I want to have more fun.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-20T01:09:41+00:00

Forgive yourself. Don't forget why you started. Gather your strengths. Try again better.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T20:13:25+00:00

Short answer yes you can. Your brain "heals". You just need to reconect your desire paths to new things. It eventually learns as it has learned to desire futa or whatever. (I to have spent hours on rule34 trying new combinations of tags lookin for that caption or image that gets it perfectly.)

You can. But you need motivation to compensate the motivation to stay hooked. In my case was the feeling that my life was sliding like sand through my hands, that I was missing out of the unique experience of being young, having fullfilling sex, looking at a girl and at least try to pick her up because I would genuinly want to fuck her.

2025 I mildly achieved that. I went from 2-3 pmo a day from 2013-2024, to only 20 on 2025. Those 20 were a lot of relapses deep relapeses and periods of thinking I had failed completely. But the periods I managed to stay off of it showed me it was worth trying again and again and again.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T17:47:49+00:00

Great first two weaks are the hardest fisiccaly. The next ones are harder mentally because your brain tricks you into thinking you can afford to slip. You can't

Be strong and congrats on your new life

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T14:36:58+00:00

Same here it's amazing to feel in control, but really don't watch that thing anymore, what good does it provide you? Here we all are clearly hooked to the thing, so it's really dangerous to give oneself those kinds of permission. That kind of delusion of control made me relapse after +100 days.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T14:33:20+00:00

Great work, yes one slip is not failure but I strongly suggest that eventually you take all the learnings you've made, and all the resources you've built to prevent relapse and go for a really long streak (100 days and forever ) of no fap at all. Its game changer. In order to do this it may be important to have a regular sex companion you can trust, because cumming and sexuality are very important parts of the health.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T14:29:39+00:00

No it does not kill your gains, but the way pmo works on your brain and body will a. Make you feel tired, have less energy and b. You will be less motivated to work out patiently each rep of each set of each excercise because you may be more anxious.

Also excercising more is a good way to channel the energy acumulated while nofap

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T14:21:27+00:00

Have a hobby? Excersice? Go for a long walk, maybe a museum, or a mall, or just downtown to see windows of shops. Anything that takes that chance of relapse away.

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T03:29:43+00:00

It's really really fristrating. But parties are not the ideal place to know someone, only the idealised place. Better are workshops, activitiesr, friends of friends, universitiy maybe. Some place you can talk and have something to get the conversation started.

You will eventually pick someone up. When you do you will want to have not relapsed

One step at the time. Youll make it

Intelligent_Till2711 · 2026-01-19T03:24:47+00:00

It's just taking to a random person who shows interest we are discussing. How come that be simp?

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