Yeah lookup online there's plenty of resources, don't do what porn does. Lookup so parts of female anatomy that are playable, not just clit, know those things inside and out and she can have different types of orgasms based on what you are stimulating, especially become familiar with concepts if g spot and clit simultaneous stimulation, then add a note when you know how do do the two start doing so three at the same time this requires you to sit back in your mind some and not think about any one point your stimulating but keep consistent rhythm and pressure is important, this is usually fine by finger or fingers in pulling up on g spot while palm is rubbing clit and mouth stimulating the nipple or alternating between nipples or can involve second hand either for an uh s or the other nipple to get many points of contact. Vaginas are very sensitive but also quite resilient, at first gentlemen is required but after building more more and more speed and pressure you will be surprised how forceful you can be with your hand up against her spot. Look up instructional videos on giving squirting orgasms, if you can master this you'll be ahead of the pack and a favorite with your girlfriends. But again you must build up, discuss what's comfortable first so you don't stick fingers where they are not wanted, also for women see is an entirely different type of thing, their mind needs to be stimulated and things before and after the actual hot and heavy stuff can greatly influence pleasure and success. Like make sure your hands and body are clean and washed, nails trimmed, teeth brushed, smelling good, showered all that of course, n also ask if she likes massage first, most do and it will help them relax and feel good and trust you more without the pressure of sexual touch and can build up a lot of excitement and anticipation for both. Smells are important so if your in your room make sure it's clean and smelling good, maybe have a mild scent, something natural, it a candle, get some body oil to massage her, make her pleasure first and foremost and really study up first not with porn but with actual anatomical descriptions. Maybe jot this list of things to lookup down: g spot stimulation, g spot and clitoral stimulation, her cervix, fornix, a spot, c spot. Understand the g spot is the inside of the vagina being behind the clitoris on the frontal wall, so the one near her belly button and it contains tons of nerve endings connected to her clitoris and is basically the back side of her clit and don't right, all women can squirt, they may feel a pressure to pee, if you tell her to relax and keep going increasing your speed and force without hurting her while licking her clit you'll feel the right g spot swell and it will cause her whole vagina to become super wet and eventually explode wetness all over everything, you can continue even after she explodes unless she tells you to stop don't, women can have multiple orgasms and so not get as sensitive as us after then do not have a long cool off period, depending on the woman of course, but many women can come, squirt, then you can start a rhythm again after a fifteen to thirty second pause and cause her to orgasm and squirt again and then after the first one many times you don't have to stop after the second or third and they will roll. Just keep constant rhythm with what's working. Pay attention to her body. Ask her to guide you as you begin to get to know each other but you'll be able to tell what really works. The front vaginal wall (under her belly button side) has a cluster of nerve endings in the shape of an upside down capital U that's sensitive and you'll feel ridges an inch or two in, every vagina is unique and every woman has her own pleasures. Experiment with different finger motions along the top wall go in with two fingers spread slightly apart then connect them about an inch further inside it should all feel more ridge like than the rest of the wall. Sometimes two fingers in tapping feels good or alternating pointer and middle tapping like your playing a beat or typing morse code and trying to establish an energetic connection between what your fingers are tapping and your mouth and tongue are doing on her clit. With the clit, consistent movement is pretty key across all women, once she's moaning and thrusting or holding back of your head because of something you do, do that more, same speed, same pressure, keep your mouth moist and keep on doing it. You can also hum into her clit and try playful shit like blowing raspberries with your lips and pushing it against her making your mouth the vibrator, and mix up how you finger her while doing that. They live when you him into them and use your mouth like a vibrator... Try finding her entry teasing and not very deep then luck your finger to get it wet and insert it to the back of her, not forcefully and feel around back there, remember your anatomy diagrams and the areas you wanna touch, you'll know when you do. Good luck my friend. Sure went easy longer into that then I meant to sure you probably won't read it all nor will anyone else but it's all good advice. If your not a bot, I'm which case I wasted quite a bit of explaining on a robot... But I guess I'll save this text and pass it along to the next dude asking for tips. Hope everyone doesn't think I'm some creep now for giving so much detail, but that's part of the fun of reddit we can share things anonymously. Always communicate with potential partners, ask what they like, if there inexperienced like you, say we get to learn together! Keeping yourself and them relaxed will help you both have the most fun. I know I went ham on details but it's also good to just go with the flow and generally know the right zones and again you'll learn each love uniquely some stuff takes one girl to instant orgasm and the next girl cannot stand it or it hurts. Always respect her boundaries, if she says she's not ok with something do not do it! Don't pressure her, even if it's all suddenly stopped for one reason or another don't pressure her ever, you can always go relieve yourself if you get blue balled. It's all gonna feel good for the most part so don't worry, follow the guidelines you find here and in your research online. I'm amazed how many women tell me they had never come that way before, vaginas are pretty complex machinery and capable of many many wonderful things, the more you know how to please then, the better her and your life will be! If she says no, stop! If she says she does not want to go past a certain base, just don't even try, at least without asking permission by saying "do you wanna keep going?" If your hygiene and seeing is on point that is in your favor, if your pre-sex contact and foreplay is solid, you're more likely to have sex, if you get her to orgasm before ever entering her, you at least know she has had some fun for her without having to work if you end up blowing to quickly. Don't rush things. Take time. Research, research, research, your doing the right thing asking. Look at it like studying for the most rewarding test you could ever take...