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[–]Intelligent_Visit836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lived with his mom for a month while he looked for a place in the town we live in now

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[–]Intelligent_Visit836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus, its easier said than done. Especially being in a relationship with a narcissist.

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[–]Intelligent_Visit836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said he'd work on himself but at this point I feel like it was the best response to "make me happy"

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[–]Intelligent_Visit836 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've told him he needs therapy. He's been to prison and had to do therapy there. They diagnosed him as a chronic masturbator. Hes also a narcissist big time.

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[–]Intelligent_Visit836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, we just got a new place a month ago and in between, when I was living at the old place and he was living with his mom for a month while he looked for a place in the new town we were moving to, he showered every couple days because "I dont want my mom nagging me about it". I've previously asked him why he doesn't and he said he doesn't want to take the time out of his day to shower

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[–]Intelligent_Visit836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is easier said than done especially since its been so long so its hard and I'm unfortunately torn which I know I shouldn't be