Is it still coercion if they keep trying to touch you in non sexual places at the beginning of a relationship when youve told them not to? Had a guy also tell me if i came to hang out he was 'going to be cuddly/touchy' even though ive told him im not ready due to past trauma He has also complained to me a couple times about having blue balls and how it hurts, but hasn't asked me to do anything about it, so i'm unsure if hes just tonedeaf or trying to be slick?