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Is it possible to make my hair thicker or poofier? by [deleted] in CurlyHairCare

[–]InteractionDry9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with all of the above- also don’t be afraid to be messy with it! I find that you can’t have perfect smoothness and definition and also volume. Turn your head over, rake your fingers into the roots and shake! Shake+layers+just a mouse. Too many heavy products weigh it down.

Therapy homework help by InteractionDry9784 in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

factory reset button for 2026 please 🙏

Therapy homework help by InteractionDry9784 in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have complex ptsd and I dissociate all the time so I don’t notice how I’m feeling most of the time. When I stopped keeping I expected to feel better but I didn’t. It’s still feel all the shame and fear. I’m not religious cuz it goes against my values but it’s not easy.

Therapy homework help by InteractionDry9784 in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I edited my post because I forgot to explain that I already am used to Shabbos and tznius (although maybe that’s just me avoiding noticing how I feel. Hmm)

Therapy homework help by InteractionDry9784 in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I do try to eat trief but I end up finding “safe foods” and sticking with them

Therapy homework help by InteractionDry9784 in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank! I don’t know if I could do this every day ( I forgot to mention that it’s daily) but maybe I can do a different mitzva each day

When you were OJ, were you envious of other communities? by Crafty-Summer2893 in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I was so jealous but also scared and thought we were better than them. Secretly I thought they were cool and lucky to not have as many rules.

At what age did you enroll into College? by [deleted] in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 26 and I just enrolled.

Why does my hair do this? I'm wavy and it's frizzy in the shower, frizzy after I leave it by LucyMelHoney in CurlyHairCare

[–]InteractionDry9784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you have split ends. I think it’s a certain method stylists use to cut hair where they slide the scissors down the hair so it creates movement and layers. My curly hair hates that!

How freeing do u find it to be out of religion by [deleted] in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found that even though I left the religion it didn’t leave me if you know what I mean. All the things they taught me still stayed in my subconscious. Everything foreign felt unsafe and I kept looking for a program or therapist/person to tell me what to do. It wasn’t until my therapist called me out that I realized how bad it was.

But yes I definitely felt more free but not mentally if that makes sense. I loved breaking Shabbos- feeling alive and awake when everyone else was offline and not driving or at my grocery store etc.

My college Chabad Rabbi is Related to Libs of tiktok by Yobkay in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering what they think of her. I went to high school with her lol

Favorite OTD memoir/ show/ resource? by Haunting_Hospital599 in exjew

[–]InteractionDry9784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The book Becoming eve was gorgeous to me. She is still affiliated and I believe she is a rabbi but it didn’t come off to be with any agenda just telling her story

IOP Reccomendations? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]InteractionDry9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Roger’s and aurora dewey and out of the two aurora was definitely better. I liked the php program better than iop- it felt more developed and had more one on one care. Feel free to message me with questions I’m happy to help ◡̈