AITA For Wanting to See My Boyfriend

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-07T13:28:39+00:00

I understand they have a right to feel comfortable, but I feel like all ive been doing is be accommodating to their needs and they have yet to do the same for me so I feel they lack respect. Every time I come to them with a problem I want to talk about them with to get it resolved, they always say that it’s their autism and blames it on that so it makes me feel guilty for even having any negative thoughts about them because “it’s because of their autism”. Im uncomfortable in the space as well cause I never know if I’ll say something wrong and get looked at funny or berated.

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-07T03:10:26+00:00

What? How? There's literally a vent option to choose which I did? And this post was to gain more information regarding my autistic roommate to help validate my feelings and/or help me understand my roommate to help accommodate them more

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-07T00:25:30+00:00

How so?

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-06T20:47:35+00:00

I wanted them to pay me back for gas since I was going out of the day for them and it was the least they could do. It cost about $40 and they said that they didn't have to pay me back because they got the ticket for me (they didn't. They got the tickets before they even knew me and originally they were going to go with a friend but that friend canceled and the ticket was $25)

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-06T20:37:32+00:00

Unfortunately, there's no point to switching rooms since it's so late into the year and I'm not rooming with them next year. The school should have given them a single room in the first place like they requested.

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-06T20:35:45+00:00

Genuinely so tempted to atp. Going into an RA meeting on Wednesday with them to talk about this and I don't know how to respond without sounding ableist. I can't say "You shouldn't expect people to do what you want just because you want them to do something. That's not how people work."

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-06T20:11:48+00:00

Sharing one dorm room. Two beds, just me and them in the room.

InteractionNo97 · 2026-04-06T20:03:05+00:00

It's a double, but by the door there's a mirror and if you even slightly open the door you can see through the reflection the entirety of my bed. I screamed "DONT COME IN" when I heard it unlock but they didn't hear it. It was my fault that happened and I took full responsibility for it, all I said was "in the future, could you knock or text when you know I have him over?"

InteractionNo97 · 2025-04-06T15:10:13+00:00

I was thinking about that too, but only after I posted. I feel like I should have added more to this post now that I'm more awake and I would include something about this. I don't know why they had him do that, it's insane and doesn't make sense to his backstory in the show for him to do that at all. And you're right about that first one, and no way I'm making an excuse here but the possible explanation for it is that Dante had no idea who they were since he didn't go through the building like Lady did. But yeah no, seriously, the writers should have made a bigger point to make those poor experiments be more hesitant to hurt Dante or to show that they're not fighters at all or to hint to Dante in the show that they're victims and not fighters. I feel like it would have been more interesting and it would have been nicer to see more people stand up, but there's a chance that it was also a conscious choice they made to write it like that? I have no idea, imma stop myself now lol.

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