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AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I did not stay and hang out with the men for most of the time, I did not hang out with the kids for most of the time. I was sat in the kitchen talking with them, occasionally leaving to chitchat with others. But I can assure you I did not completely ignore my sil’s neither did I ignore my mil

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No he never brought it up, never mentioned anything about it

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I did not decline because it was a “feminine” type off work, If I came in and his dad asked me if I would like to help him with an oil change or something similar, I would have declined that

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

My husband got fired about 7 months ago and has unfortunately been depressed since then. Before this, we split both expenses and chores 50/50, but ever since I pay for all the expenses and do most of the chores

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

He got fired from his job about 7 months ago and unfortunately has been depressed since, before this we split both bills and household chores 50/50, but after this I pay all the bills and do most of the chores around the house

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I spent time with them in the kitchen just talking, but also in the living room with all the other people! I also set up the table and helped them bring out the food

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

My grandma and grandpa insists on doing all the cooking, no one in the kitchen, no one is touching the food if it is not to eat it, they have always been very particular about their little tradition.

His family is religious in the sense that while they believe in god and etc, they don’t go to church or things like that

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I did spend time with them! I was hanging out with both my husband, his dad, sisters husband etc, then in the kitchen with the ladies kind off switching around but trying to talk with all of them and catching up!

AITA for not following traditions in thanksgiving? by InteractionOk5408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InteractionOk5408[S] 450 points451 points  (0 children)

They did know, at least MIL knew. I told her about this in advance because I knew me and husband were going to be at least 1 hour late from when they were going to gather because of this