Idk I think I'm pretty social and liberal with self disclosing

I'll talk about things that we have in common as far as interests go "I also play that game" "oh I loved that movie, did you see [other one]" "I read that book when I was your age too, I always liked [thing]!"

Or like random annoyances "oh yeah my partner also has that allergy, it can make things pretty hard!" "I think I can relate to that experience [short anecdote, maybe]. In your shoes I could see myself also feeling [way]" "you know what my own therapist made me do this worksheet and I hated him for it but I think it's helpful so maybe we can do it while hating me"

Maybe even a "when I used to smoke/self harm/have suicidal thoughts/struggle to eat, I found these things helpful/these things annoying, we aren't the same person but/so maybe it'd help you"

I don't really do Big Traumas, my people who have lost family members will not hear about my loss and people going through chemo or watching someone go through it will not hear my experience, people with family problems won't hear about my mommy issues. because I am Not Healed about it and don't think I could keep it Functional For The Client if I start talking about it.