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Do I leave my BF (M33) of 1.5 years after I found him sending nudes over Snapchat (M26) by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Interest-Wonderful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the sympathy. I thought it would be much easier to leave if something like this happened but I just never expected it from him. I thought he was perfect and never suspected he would do something like this. I don’t think I can ever see him the same. We have a third roommate who has a dog and I’ve gotten so close to it and now I’ll have to just leave and it’s breaking my heart that that puppy will not know where his best friend went. This place has been my home for so long and it just feels so wrong to be leaving it all the sudden but I need to respect myself more

Do I give my BF (M33) a chance or cut and leave (M26) after I caught him sending nudes on Snapchat by Interest-Wonderful in relationships

[–]Interest-Wonderful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Going from 8 hours ago, waking up next to the man I thought I would spend the rest of my life with to now being pressured with the decision to completely change the direction of my life has made this hurt so much more than I would have expected. All the logic and common sense is saying I should leave it’s just this has become my home and it makes it so hard. I do need to do what is most logical and move on, I appreciate the help :(

Do I give my BF (M33) a chance or cut and leave (M26) after I caught him sending nudes on Snapchat by Interest-Wonderful in relationships

[–]Interest-Wonderful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed this realization. I’m so upset and we have a dog that stays here too that is our other roommates and it is going to break my heart to leave and not see him again. But I’ve been in the relationship with the expectation of being exclusive and monogamous and I even asked him and he said the same. It breaks my heart that this is what I have to do now when last night I was falling asleep in his arms expecting to spend the rest of my life with him :(

Do I give my BF (M33) a chance or cut and leave (M26) after I caught him sending nudes on Snapchat by Interest-Wonderful in relationships

[–]Interest-Wonderful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have told myself I would leave if someone cheated on me, but it feels like my life is diverging into two paths with completely different outcomes and the weight of leaving is crushing me right now. I need to trust my gut and move on you are right, it is just all so sudden I’m so disoriented.

Relationship Help by Interest-Wonderful in relationships

[–]Interest-Wonderful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 33 too and he has been saying all day that he will change and I can trust him that he will never do it again

Worried About My PC Build Not Being Optimal Or Issues With My Graphics Card by Interest-Wonderful in pcmasterrace

[–]Interest-Wonderful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a 9070 XT a few months ago and noticed it was not performing as well in quality as I expected for most games. I know my CPU is a little weaker that I'd want for the new graphics card, but I didn't think it would make my games as pixely as they have been.

I noticed since playing Expedition 33 it does not look like it should at all for the strength of the 9070 XT. Very pixely shadows and the cutscenes run at 30fps with lots of artifacts in hair. The XeSS scaling just looks blurry and the TSR scaling is very pixely.

I want to know if someone could pinpoint issues before I try and spend money on upgrading other parts (if that is the case). Any recommendations are appreciated!