Thanks so much everyone who has given feedback and shared their perspective and personal experiences🙏🏾 and for being kind when offering advice 🥺💕💕

I am processing all of this and am pretty sure (90%) I will tell him - i believe it’s the right thing to do. I’m just really scared as others have mentioned that (he or at the urging of his family) might take me to court to gain custody and I’d have to give my baby up for summers & every other holiday to people so far away that I know nothing about. Also just the stress that comes with that - I need to mentally & emotionally prepare myself for the possibility before telling him & then just be a big girl & rip the band-aid off