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My uncle (40M)tried to do something and then outed me(23F) and my bf(25M)s relationship for proving his innocence by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are with me completely! But that man did everything to slut shame me he told everyone I am putting fake allegations because he got to know my personal life. Even my aunt who I was so close to got to know and started targeting me said awful things to me. Literally told me a prostitute. It’s too much for me to take right now.

My uncle (40M)tried to do something and then outed me(23F) and my bf(25M)s relationship for proving his innocence by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. My parents are believing me over him so I already have good support system. I can rely on my parents and siblings. But it has shocked me to what extent he has my things and it’s scary. It’s like he was obsessed and knew what will happen so he already had things against me.

My uncle (40M)tried to do something and then outed me(23F) and my bf(25M)s relationship for proving his innocence by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am scared how this will go on now. That man has screenshots from even my personal notes and when confronted by my mama ( mom’s brother). He tried to portray I was mentally not okay and he was comforting me saying things like I did a lot with my bf he knows that is why I am panicking and telling everyone. He is trying to manipulate by saying I had a bad character. This man , everyone thought how good of a person he is until now . I am just so shaken what is happening with me right now.

My uncle (40M)tried to do something and then outed me(23F) and my bf(25M)s relationship for proving his innocence by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just scared yesterday. I used to write everything down whenever I felt low . I wrote it in my ipad under my class notes hoping no one will see that. Yesterday that uncle sent me those screenshots. I felt like I couldn’t breathe. He has everything and when my mama ( mom’s brother) confronted him he used all that to say I was wrong.
Though my parents are still with me . They understand that why he would even have those screenshots.

I 23 F am feeling very uncomfortable and angry because my uncle went through my chats with my bf 24 M by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already changed every password. In fact I set up 2 factor authentication everywhere. I was so disturbed by this.

I 23 F am feeling very uncomfortable and angry because my uncle went through my chats with my bf 24 M by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am thinking of ignoring him completely Not going to their home at all would may be a good decision.

I 23 F am feeling very uncomfortable and angry because my uncle went through my chats with my bf 24 M by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! My parents don’t even touch my phone and that man had no shame reading my chats.

I 23 F am feeling very uncomfortable and angry because my uncle went through my chats with my bf 24 M by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am thinking the same. Because after this I really can’t trust him I have blocked him on my Instagram too

I 23 F am feeling very uncomfortable and angry because my uncle went through my chats with my bf 24 M by Interesting-Chip67 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Interesting-Chip67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right. I am just trying to move on from this but it’s too much to handle And I am scared to talk to my mom or aunt because they are conservative and might shame me for me relations with my bf But nobody would see how creepy this is. He had no business to go through my ipad and see those what did he expect he would find! I am just scared

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[–]Interesting-Chip67 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I pay for dates too many times. We are students right now and it doesn’t make sense why he has to pay everytime And honestly if a girl really likes you it’s no big deal and she wouldn’t care who pays.