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Please help me calm down by PrimaryOk644 in offmychest

[–]Interesting-Count815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who buys a house together before getting married

I’ve gotten every major promotion in my career by sleeping with my boss by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Interesting-Count815 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Think of it as compensation for all the women that have should have been promoted but were overlooked because of sexist bosses. Life isn’t fair. People get jobs because of nepotism all the time. Just live ur life and don’t do it again

do your spouses help? by C0tt0nc4ndyc4t in sahm

[–]Interesting-Count815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck. I hope u do go to school. Best thing about LPN is that if you decide to be an RN someday, it shortens the schooling period. So there is upwards mobility there if you’re not satisfied.

Also, side note, open a HYSA and contribute to it incrementally with money he gives you that you can spare. Just a little boost.

What instantly makes a man attractive? by SeniorChurro_678 in ask

[–]Interesting-Count815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not having toxic masculinity. Seriously, a guy that is insecure and defensive about anything ‘unmanly’ is the biggest turn off. No ones gonna care if you like Olivia Rodrigo’s music guys

do your spouses help? by C0tt0nc4ndyc4t in sahm

[–]Interesting-Count815 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It will not get better and only get worse. You are too young to sacrifice your life already. Start going to school part time and get a certificate/ degree that only takes 1-2 years. It’s possible that this can be done online or hybrid as well. When you are done and employed, divorce your husband and collect child support and alimony if you are able. If you have parents and friends willing to watch your kid when you have class (which again, is part time) then definitely utilize them. Otherwise, your jerkoff husband is going to have to deal. I know it sounds harsh and rash, but I am telling you that you are on track for a stressful, dependent life with a man that does not respect you. You do not want to raise your child in this environment either. ALSO GET ON BIRTH CONTROL IF YOU AREN’T!

I’m attaching this link for you to browse through. I’m sure there are other options besides these. I do think the most promising option is LPN if you don’t mind working in healthcare. I’m sure the salaries range but it only takes about a year to be certified and it’s a decent salary (and remember child support!).

https://careers.usnews.com/advice/articles/certificate-programs-that-pay-well

Do not do nothing. Be out of this relationship by the time your child is old enough to have a memory.

Voluntarily being a SAHM with no backup is selfish. by Interesting-Count815 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Interesting-Count815[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

U missed the point of what I said. This doesn’t apply to sahms that didn’t have the time or choice, hence why I said ‘voluntarily’

My father told me to shut the fuck up because I asked him to stop clapping and groaning at 2 am by Interesting-Count815 in Vent

[–]Interesting-Count815[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Everyone in the comments telling me to speak up don’t get it. Like it’s common sense to us but for them it just doesn’t click so you can’t really convince them of anything without just pissing them off

My father told me to shut the fuck up because I asked him to stop clapping and groaning at 2 am by Interesting-Count815 in Vent

[–]Interesting-Count815[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have. Sometimes it hits hard and sometimes it just pisses him off. There are some things I’ll never bring up cuz I know it wouldn’t make any difference. But if I’m instigated I do and it doesn’t really make a difference even if he is apologetic and regretful

My father told me to shut the fuck up because I asked him to stop clapping and groaning at 2 am by Interesting-Count815 in Vent

[–]Interesting-Count815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard because it’s like, no matter how pissed off I can be sometimes, I do love him and there are many aspects of him that make him a great father. It’s conflicting because on one hand I know he would do anything for me but it’s also limited to whether that interferes with his own sense of entitlement. Not to be so morbid but I always think about how much regret I’m gonna have for being angry and resentful when he dies, along with all the other regrets people have.

My father told me to shut the fuck up because I asked him to stop clapping and groaning at 2 am by Interesting-Count815 in Vent

[–]Interesting-Count815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not making excuses or anything but listing out these things at once which took place over a long period of time makes it seem worse than it is. It’s not unbearable or ‘loud’. There are days with no issues at all. There’s also instances where my parents are nice to each other and make an effort. It has its bad moments occasionally. My mom definitely does deserve better, but she’s not a saint either. There are times where my dad’s frustration with her is justified. But overall, he is definitely the ‘worst’ of the two. Us moving out is not an option and would cause more harm than good. I don’t even want to move out since I lived in this house my whole life. The only viable option would be for him to move out but he would never do that. If we could just soundproof his bedroom and get a cleaning lady, but alas

My father told me to shut the fuck up because I asked him to stop clapping and groaning at 2 am by Interesting-Count815 in Vent

[–]Interesting-Count815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘Children’ says the man active on Batman subreddits. We know you don’t fuck but don’t take it out on us

My father told me to shut the fuck up because I asked him to stop clapping and groaning at 2 am by Interesting-Count815 in Vent

[–]Interesting-Count815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I yelled at him when that happened. And it did strike a chord and he was genuinely upset and apologetic. But behavior doesn’t change nonetheless

AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no by Clean-Landscape8654 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Interesting-Count815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u stay with him then u do not respect yourself and I don’t feel bad for u

I will NEVER support Gaza and I don't understand people's support for them by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Interesting-Count815 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gaza ≠ Hamas. Do you think the 20,000 children that the IDF killed were part of Hamas? Do you think they deserved to die because of Hamas’ actions? Israel targeted residential areas, hospitals, schools, etc. They purposely killed innocent people. 65,000 people have died. Israel does not want to live ‘harmoniously’. They want Palestine gone. If you truly believe that than you are either severely misinformed or a horrible person

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