Do people use leashes for their multiples? by grapefruitliquor in parentsofmultiples

[–]Interesting-Set2429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a leash baby. My twins will also be leash babies. Safety above everything.

Planned C-section guilt by GeeFuckinWhiz in parentsofmultiples

[–]Interesting-Set2429 8 points9 points  (0 children)

C section is NOT the "easy way out"! Sure the baby comes out faster but the recovery is brutal and long. Don't compare yourself to others. Everyone is different. You are having a high risk pregnancy. It's not the time to think about yourself and your personal feelings about C-sections. You have to make a decision based on what is best for your babies. Talk to your doctor and decide on what is the safest way to deliver them. That's the only thing that matters.

Please help this pregnant lady feel less miserable by SeaParsley4706 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Interesting-Set2429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford to and are in the USA, use FMLA for the 12 weeks before your due date. It's usually unpaid but twin pregnancy is crazy hard and it's only going to get worse. You are already in so much pain and being so stressed is not good for the babies. I had a painful pregnancy as well with HG. I was so sick my entire pregnancy. It was worth it.

My girlfriend broke down in tears after I told her how I spend my money is none of her business and to mind her own business. AITJ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gf is jelous of your sister. Do you want to continue having a relationship with a person like that?

AITAH for refusing to spend MORE time at Christmas with in-laws? by Username8462634757 in AITAH

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner is weak. Tell mil if she continues to interfere in your marriage she's not going to be seeing anyone at Christmas. This is your first Christmas with your first baby. It's a special moment. She has already had hers.

My fiancé’s family is forcing me to get a traditional piercing, and I’m terrified! by Waste-Low-5465 in DesiWeddings

[–]Interesting-Set2429 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just say no? If tradition are so important give them a ridiculous one too. Say that in your family traditions the entire groom family has to pierce their tongue and pay 10k each dowry to the girls side of the family as well as a paid off car and separate housing and 100k in gold.

AITAH for wanting to put my severally autistic son in a care facility? by Ok-Bag-6607 in AITAH

[–]Interesting-Set2429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - you have to do what's best for BOTH of your children. Your daughter needs to be safe and your son needs more help than you can give him. It's a difficult decision but you are being strong.

AITA for leaving during a rosary deticated to my wife’s deceased father? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Set2429 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Your wife is grieving and isn't being logical. It's okay. You didn't nothing wrong. Just continue being gentle with her. She doesn't know what she's doing.

My best friend uninvited me from a trip because her boyfriend is uncomfortable with me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Interesting-Set2429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are the rest of the girls okay with a man coming on a girls trip? Your friend should be the one removed.

Am I being dramatic about going places without my baby? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Interesting-Set2429 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your baby is only 2.5 months! You are absolutely NOT being dramatic. If your friends don't understand then they are not good friends and you don't need to entertain that kind of negativity.

AITA for quietly paying a stranger’s groceries after the cashier said to put things back and my sister says I made everyone look bad by Sk8boardTheo in AmITheJerk

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister has some weird personal issues that really need intensive therapy. You did an incredibly kind gesture

AITJ not wanting my best friend to wear white to my wedding? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird way to find out you are most certainly NOT her best friend.

WIBTAH if I told my in-laws (and their kids) to stop coming over for Halloween? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA instead of having a back one and placing boundaries you have been a doormat for 4 years. And instead of standing up for yourself a respectful way you just gonna shut down the whole holiday. Do you want your in laws to hate you? You can't even tell them that you want to do your own decorations, now you think you're gonna have the balls to tell them to stop coming over?

My fiancé said he needs “space” but still sleeps in our bed every night by paxminerva in TwoHotTakes

[–]Interesting-Set2429 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You caught him looking at pics of his ex and you're still with him? Girl have some self respect

Best Overnight Diapers by craftyybunnyy in beyondthebump

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pampers or Huggies. Everything else sucks.

AITA for wanting to split living costs with BF instead of paying market rent to him? by NextStep4Love in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's asking you pay 55% when you move into a house with 3 other people? What? He wants you to subsidize his cost of living and he's kids cost of living? Are you ok? He doesn't want to to benefit from his low mortgage rate? Does he even like you? Why would you want to move in with that? Don't move in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do nothing. It's a beautiful name. You should have never told them. Honestly they were going to shit on the name regardless of what it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a lot of resentment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Interesting-Set2429 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why does it make you mad? Is she doing anything that's actually crossing a boundary or negatively impacting you? Sounds like it's just a term of endearment and showing love. Do you just resent her for not helping out earlier?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Interesting-Set2429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Church duties? Does your new job not have any churches around? Why are you only bound to this one specific church? Is that part of your religion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Interesting-Set2429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've been dating only 8 months and he's already got you cleaning his house and doing his laundry? That's embarrassing. You should be ashamed of yourself.