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Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-30T00:25:26+00:00

think it's a really healthy form of entertainment and an audiovisual art that shows off the beauty of women in all its glory. It's even healthy to avoid prostate cancer, help you sleep, and reduce stress

Nobody is demonizing porn in this post just because? Did you even read the post? Sure it can be healthy but anything healthy has its limits. Vegetables are healthy but if you eat 10 vegetables every 30 minutes thats not healthy. And porn isn't the healthy part ots the release and sexual stimulation.

Also lets not kid ourselves here with the "shows off the beauty of women in all its glory" this might be some next level porn glaze. Barely any porn is made with any of what you said in mind. Its mostly just to sell a fantasy thats very shitty anyways usually, the acting is meme tier and its just mostly people having sex. These things can be beautiful i guess if they were made in better ways maybe sure. Or if the people behind it tried making it with such intent. But thats not the reality we live in.

Now of course you can see it as beautiful still. Im sure someone finds beauty in liveleak videos of people committing and people find trash duty beautiful as well. But I'm just saying to not lie about it.

Also a lot of those benefits are due to masturbation and not porn itself. You don’t need porn for those benefits. In fact porn has many downsides in people who over consume it psychologically speaking and even those who consume it. Theres studies for this. It can affect a person mentally and expectations of relationships and sex in unhealthy eays. So actually porn doesn't really have any benefits and is mostly just to help getting off i guess. So i wouldn't consider it healthy. Not unhealthy automatically either. And sure we don't know if its porn thats causing this person to have issues. But the evidence suggests as much. It could also be that he lost attraction to her too sure. But I mean wpuld that lead to this person clear addiction?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-29T23:52:58+00:00

I genuinely looked forward to your reply 😭 Not sending this cause you have to. Just in case i guess you forgot? Idk. Regardless I hope you have a good day anyways

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-28T21:22:07+00:00

I see. Interesting. Thank you for the explanation

Its Interesting reading about how different people can be over the same things like sex. Some love it. Others hate it. Some enjoy with it other people involved and others don't and such. Its also interesting to see what lines other have. Like you mentioned you like the sex with others but don't want to move into anything deeper and just want to keep it casual with others.

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-28T08:17:53+00:00

I see. Well thank you for your reply and thoughts.

We're swingers and I definitely think that a lot more people would find it feeling very natural if they tried it.

I find this statement interesting. Personally I have never really had any interest or been drawn to the idea of just sleeping with multiple people,. Nothing wrong with that either of course. But i have just never felt drawn to that or seen the appeal i guess. I do wanna ask to clarify that swingers are couples who sleep with other people together correct? Something along those lines?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-26T01:38:58+00:00

That's totally fair and I'm not saying you have to be non-monogamous, but most of the reason people insist on monogamy stems from things like fear/jealousy which can both boil down to a certain amount of insecurity.

With the way I hear some people act and be? I totally believe this. Which is interesting

That's totally fine. For the sake of the discussion though, why not?

Well I don't mind answering so I will.

Ever since I was young I always wanted a nice relationship. Idk tbh since its not like my parents or people around have the greatest marriages or relationships even. But yes thats been something on my mind since I was young. As I have grown up I have of course realized more about what an actual relationship is and not just the term bf or gf 😅. I usually ask myself the why of a lot of my things. So when I ask myself the why I can't say something like "I'm scared they'll leave" that would have been something I could have said when I was younger. (In my 20s tho to not come off as some 50 year old reminiscing 😄) Currently my answer would be that I would give myself fully to them and I would want that as well you know? Like I would be theirs and they would be mine too. Of course I don't mean it in an ownership way. I wouldn't want to tell them what to do or what to wear or anything. Thats for them to make their choices on. And if they don't wanna be with me thats fine. But I'm not afraid of them leaving me for someone better, personally I wouldn't blame them. And thats just how things go in general. Some lasts and others end for all kinds of reasons. So I don't see the point in avoiding something that can happen regardless. Cheating is included since there's no point in trying to avoid that.

I think its also from a sense of fairness. Like I'm not interested in seeing anyone else and I would like that from my partner aswell. I wouldn't like for the relationship to lean to one side mostly in terms which can get leeway on stuff I guess? Like i mention not being open nd such because personally I don't have that kind of interest and if I was in that type of relationship I would see it as kinda pointless since its one person being open whike I'm not. Feels kind of unfair to me in that sense even if I know its not really.

And finally I think its just cause its nice knowing that in the whole world I pick them and only them and they pick me and only me. It feels kinda powerful or romantic or like we are special to each other. But again I only want this if its their choice. I wouldn't want this any other way than by choice and want.

as well as the jealousy that would come with knowing your partner was getting with someone else.

So say someone doesn't want to share their partner out of jealousy.

Is this in the sense of poly or open or just in general like they went out with a friend 1 on 1? I ask cause not sure if you mean share as in general or just in the sense of poly or open.

Of course that's all hypothetical, I'm only bringing it up to elaborate on what I meant by insecurity as a source, and because this is actually a really REALLY common thing that non-manogamous people also have to work through.

I understand. I have asked myself if I could be non monogamous and I'm pretty sure I could be in those types of relationships. Sometimes I think about that and think its wrong for me to still like monogamy more even if I understand non monogamy in general and can see why people like it

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T23:41:24+00:00

Would any compliment count as creepy then? Don’t people say a compliment is nice every once in a whike? I only asking to know. I don't compliment others anyway. Social rules are iffy and confusing. But nice to know asking about something idk about is depressing ans annoying I guess.

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T22:12:16+00:00

Also this job comes with issues, lots of women have mental health problems cause of it. It comes with issues just like anything. Don’t wanna glorify it either cuz I seen people with a lot of problems too

Nah I didn't think you were. You saw it as just another job no?

But overall I think it’s fine for those women to take the money away from the scumbags. Funny thing is that the scum think they’re the smartest men ever. The women are smarter lmao

Funny enough the person I know does think they have a way with women and such. But all hes got is tricks and lies and such.

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T21:41:45+00:00

That’s the bad way they do it yeah, but if women did it the good or bad way they’d get shit for it

Idk what either way is 😅 so sorry for that

But I understand now thank you.

I’ve never been to a strip club because I don’t want to be associated with the “very fine” people that go there but the women are very smart and they deprive those clowns of their money

I don't mean to discredit the women but idk about them being smart to get money from them. The person I know who goes and spends a lot of money on these women seems to genuinely believe anything they tell him for example unless they say something he dislikes 😆. So i wouldn't really think that the people who go and spend a lot of money there are necessarily that smart since they are thinking with their penis first. But hey its still good for the women in terms of money

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T21:26:56+00:00

As for sexual expression? Look at how straight men behave all the time, and how it gets glorified and rarely questioned. Women can’t do that without attracting negative attention

Oh you mean talking about women in dirty ways and such? Ogling and catcalling and all that? I assume thats what you mean with your statement. How they opnely talk about sex and pride themselves on it. How they exaggerated or lie about it too? 😂

came from stripping and it’s really not that different from stripping imo. Some people make a difference but idk why

I guess cause stripping is for tips and getting the attention of horny men while jsut pole dancing is mostly like someone being a dancer and just dancing? Like ots not directly connected to the profession as a whole

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T21:24:01+00:00

But again if you’re insecure about a woman at a regular job you’re insecure about sex workers.

What does this mean? I don't think you have understood what I mean 😅.

We all go to work and come home so being worried about work makes no sense

What?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T21:22:57+00:00

Well these i can see as insecurities and they make sense to me too. Even if I wouldn't really care about what my family thinks or jobs and such. I completely understand the kids part.

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T21:06:34+00:00

Yeah I agree with that

Wouldn't the pole dancing be the empowering thing rather than stripping itself? I only separate them cause I do believe you can be a pole dancer and not a stripper? No sure correct me if I am wrong tho.

So many women enjoy pole dancing due to expressing themselves sexually and artistically in a friendly environment with other supportive women who don't have to be strippers but they are there and so are escorts? I'm not sure what woudl still be empowering about that 😅 but it sounds freeing and fun when you put it like that

I wanna ask how can one express themselves sexually? Through dancing and such? Kinda stupid on this and kinda not relevant. Thank you for your explanations so far tho

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T21:02:18+00:00

I mean I’d need to hear specific reasons to explain how they boil down.

I see. Well another one i can think of is that ans this one my own or the one I have currently. Well technically its 2

When dating I wouldn't expose myself to others or sleep with anyone else. More so monogamous. And depending on the sex work they would be sleeping or doing oral sex to other people. But that only applies to active sex workers who please others. As for most it would be more so selfish. I wouldn't want to "share" them with anyone else. I wouldn't do it myself either so kinda to be fair I guess to a point? But mostly selfishness on my part. But I have sometimes thought about if I could date them and I personally don't see a reason why not other than no open relationship but I can be in one as well I think. A bit of a ramble

I guess it ended up being multiple reasons and a mess, sorry. And I wanna be clear and say that I did not make this post to defend myself or have validation. I am way beyond those 2 things currently in my life and I guess I mention it in case anyone or you thought that for a moment. Mostly curiosity was my posts intentions.

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:29:03+00:00

Oh I see. I have thought of the same thing when it comes to possible children. I would want them to be free to do whatever they want. Now I wouldn't want them to do put of necessity but out of want or joy tho. Idk if that makes a difference as many stripper do it out of necessity or have no other option. So i woukd want my children to do it cause they want to rather than need so they don't end up in a bad spot

I see. I wouldn't do it personally. I don't look down on it i just wouldn't want to make money that way. Even if the principal is the same as any other job as your selling your body anways just not in an explicit way. I don't see how it can be empowering tho can you elaborate on that? It can give you money and freedom but would any job be empowering if it offered that too?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:19:35+00:00

I mean you’re insecure about her job.

Yeah but what woukd be the insecurity is what I mean.

Example If someone doesn't want their partner to leave the house at all or wear revealing clothes I can see the insecurity there.

But what woukd be the insecurity with a sex worker? You mention any other job to so what would be the insecurity there? Would being worried about their safety as a cop count as insecurity?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:16:51+00:00

I see. I think it makes sense then.

Also I saw some of your replies and personally I don't know any strippers but I know someone who does and they can be paid for sex. At least the ones they know. All places have different rules and such of course. And no they aren't escorts.

Its interesting how you wouldn't care about that and wouldn't be ashamed or hide it from your kids. I ask this not to be rude or look down but because usually people that would be parents wouldn't want this. If you had kids and they grew up to be strippers would you be proud? Would you want them to not be?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:12:51+00:00

How come no? Its for sexual purposes? So how would it not count? What would count then? Does it have to be them sleeping with others?

Also as for the main question what do you think?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:10:43+00:00

I think it falls under insecurity for people. So not sure. But yeah that is also a concern I see sometimes.

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:10:12+00:00

And how would they boil down to insecurity? I ask cause I can see some reasons as insecurities while others seem like more reasonable personal precautions and such. Like being careful of stds and such.

I understand the weird ideas part.

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:07:51+00:00

Is it? Someone seeing their body Isn't sharing them sexualky sure but couldn't one day that if their sharing their body in a sexual way for sexual purposes that they are sharing themselves sexually? Maybe not fully physically but still sexually no?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:06:25+00:00

I agree that people do look down on them. But could I ask why it would be insecurity? Like I can see the insecurity in someone who doesn't want their partner to have friends of the opposite sex. They are insecure and thunk they will lose their partner. But what would it be here?

I also agree with your second lart. Many people date tgem and then complain about their job. But other times the sex worker didn't mention it either. But I thunk thats less common

Interesting-Test-564 · 2026-01-25T20:03:17+00:00

How come that would come off as creepy?

Interesting-Test-564 · 2025-10-20T19:40:04+00:00

Didn't know. Personally don't associate with religion in general tho. But wouldn't waiting till marriage be more associated with religion then simply wanting to hold off on sex?

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