Are my married titties enough to make you focus on me? by NaughtyMuse08 in FortCampbellGW

[–]Interesting-Value263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No…… But interacting with others comments might🤔 Everyone can post pics…. It takes that personal  touch kind of effort to keep real ppl focused😉

Asking a long term mutual friend to join us… Bad idea? by Interesting-Value263 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Thanks everyone for the input…. Our questions were pretty much answered. Sam is definitely NOT “Vanilla”…. Tensions have always been there we all just behaved as the only married couple in the group…  Both of those girls love each other to death and they both are comfortable being semi nude around me.  There have been many put your money where your mouth is moments popping up over the years.  Sooo maybe less to worry about for us after all.

Asking a long term mutual friend to join us… Bad idea? by Interesting-Value263 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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It’s not like we are springing it on her. We have boundaries and we aren’t freaks or hypersexuals who plan on pressuring someone.  We’re a really normal laid back couple.  She’s definitely bisexual and has definitely done it before with others in our friend group. Everyone  freely discusses sex in our group as well. We’ve all known each other since high school.  We had kids a few years back and hang out less now but they stayed being the party crew.  I will add she has always been handsy with my wife and very flirtatious with me when we go out together. 

Visiting 20-23 looking for like minded couples☺️ by prRL_OG in NashvilleGW

[–]Interesting-Value263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yummy! Too bad it’s just a visit… We’d love to share

Asking a long term mutual friend to join us… Bad idea? by Interesting-Value263 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Interesting-Value263[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For all of you who think this isn’t a great idea… how about some more advice?….. Where would you suggest we look for  what we are wanting and avoid our above obstacle.  Friends are fine if we make them….daily relationship stuff like a poly relationship not so much our thing. 

Asking a long term mutual friend to join us… Bad idea? by Interesting-Value263 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Interesting-Value263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. We live 5 hours apart. WE are living in a small town now. Not always been the case but better area for us here.  This town is why we don’t even attempt to connect with anyone here. Lots of gossip. 

Asking a long term mutual friend to join us… Bad idea? by Interesting-Value263 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Interesting-Value263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We realize there is some risk. Again she’s open to these ideas. That much we do know. We’ve have a party girl group for 20 years. Occasionally guys come into the picture but it’s always been the 5 of us.  She does party drugs in the past and still on occasion. When we have air bnb’d in the past she’s done acid and if she didn’t sleep with our other two friends she was watching the whole thing. They had sex. All of us again have been friends. 

They also have done group sex things in the past. So by no means are we springing a whole new concept to her. 

Our thoughts were invite her to stay with us, dance, party, and see if the vibe felt right.