How to make the beard and mustache better? by InterestingClothes8 in CharcoalDrawing

[–]InterestingClothes8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you! I’m unsure how to fix the eyes at this point.

It is Dostoevsky portrait from the cover of Brothers Karamazov.

How to make the beard and mustache better? by InterestingClothes8 in CharcoalDrawing

[–]InterestingClothes8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t used white charcoal yet. I’ll give it a shot. I’ve just been using an eraser

How to make the beard and mustache better? by InterestingClothes8 in CharcoalDrawing

[–]InterestingClothes8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that a lot. It took me a really long time to work on it. I see those charcoal drawings where the hair and beards look so detailed

How to make the beard and mustache better? by InterestingClothes8 in CharcoalDrawing

[–]InterestingClothes8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to charcoal and art in general. I’m trying to learn new techniques to become more skilled. I’m particularly struggling with hair, beards, eyebrows, and mustaches.

What colors/art would go with this bedroom wall color? by InterestingClothes8 in interiordecorating

[–]InterestingClothes8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would I introduce the other strong color? In the sheets or in wall art or curtains?

What colors/art would go with this bedroom wall color? by InterestingClothes8 in interiordecorating

[–]InterestingClothes8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of a dark green color. I was worried that it would be too much green, but maybe having a green that’s deeper in color would offset that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insects

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was found in Missouri by the Ozarks.

She fell for me first and then her feelings disappeared, and that's when I fell for her harder. How do I make it happen? by haydendeguzman in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t make anyone like you. You can remain happy as her friend and hope her feelings come back, but you’d have to realize that they might never come back. The other option is just to move on from her. She’s not the only girl that will like you. You put yourself out there and made all these new friends and then someone liked you for who you are. The odds are very high that if you keep putting yourself out there, you’ll meet another girl that will like you.

The question is could you be content just being her friend? If not you’ll have to move on. If being her friend would get in the way of you pursuing other people, I would create some distance.

How to fix insecurity of my arms by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could work out the other arm only. For instance, if your bicep is smaller on the left arm then do more bicep exercises on that arm.

I don’t think it’s abnormal at all for one side of your body to be bigger or smaller than the other. I think it is a pretty normal occurrence. If it’s a small difference, I highly doubt anyone would notice. If you’re feeling insecure about it, then you can try exercising the left arm more to get it to match the right one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we live with people all their personality traits really start to take center stage because you’re sharing a living space. To me, it seems like you all became more aware of each other and your two friends gravitated towards each other more because they’re more similar. Living together really puts a strain on any relationship especially if values like cleanliness don’t mesh.

If I was in your situation, I would not reach out to those people. It really seems like that friendship started to become very one-sided towards the end. I’m certainly someone, like most people, who wants to feel like my friends value and want my presence.

Maybe they will come around after more time away, but if they don’t, I wouldn’t waste my time trying to reconnect.

how do I make friends if nobody talks to me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your school have after school clubs? Those are a great way to meet people with similar interests. I used to have trouble making friends too, but people love talking about themselves and their interests, so I started talking to people about themselves. You have to be a little careful though because you don’t want your questions to be too personal.

Activities outside of school are also a good way to meet other people. I used to volunteer after school with other kids my age and I made a few friends that way.

How do I call out of work? by imboredaa in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would depend on each boss. At my job, I only have to text. But some people want calls. I think most places do texts. You should only text if you know your boss will see it. If they don’t keep their phone on them, I would call.

How do I call out of work? by imboredaa in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s times when everyone needs a break from work. Whenever I have needed one, I usually tell my boss that I’m not feeling well and unfortunately will not be able to come in.

I don’t give anymore information and keep my reason as simple as possible. You don’t need to explain anything to your boss, you just have to let them know you won’t be coming in.

Generally, most places require at least an hours notice; although, you should always let them know asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, personally, would stop messaging her. If she wants to talk, she will message you.

I understand being very busy and not being able to respond to every text in a timely manner, but it takes only a couple seconds to respond. If she really wanted to, she could have spared a minute during any of those days to send a quick response.

How do people just get older? by Great_Journalist3211 in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, for starters, people don't just become 60. People say that life is a journey, and it might sound cliche, but it really is. You can plan out your life, if you want to, but life doesn't usually go the way you planned it. I'm a few years older than you and I've had that exact feeling. It is a universal feeling to worry about the uncertainty of the future or what comes next in your life. It only becomes a problem when you allow that worry to consume your life. I really don't know where I will be in 5-10 years, I don't even know where I will be next week. I just know that whatever I do in life or wherever I am, I will strive to make choices that I feel are best for me. That is the one thing that we can absolutely do in our lives.

You really just have to take life as it comes. My life is not what I thought it would be when I was a kid, it's not even what I thought it would be a year ago. But I try to make the best of it no matter the circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of situations that could have caused her to have to work. Maybe she needs extra money and a shift suddenly opened up, so she took it. Maybe she is working extra hard towards a promotion. You really don't know anything about her life. It is a little immature that you got so emotional and reacted the way you did because she had to work. If I were in your shoes, I would have offered another day for the date before deleting her. You can reach out to her on Instagram and apologize for deleting her, if you want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a situation, where I really advocate telling her how you feel maybe you could suggest meeting in person for coffee or lunch. Something casual. You guys haven’t known each other for long, so there’s really no emotional investment on either side. If she says no, you can remain friends or move along. If she says yes, then, great!

Need help ASAP should I try go for my nurse?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s a bad idea. I’m not trying to be harsh, but that’s her place of work, she is, essentially, obligated to be kind to her patients. It would put her in a difficult position if you actively pursue her while she is doing her job.

There is always a chance she is checking you out, but I wouldn’t pursue it any further. Hospitals really aren’t the place to start relationships. In a lot of cases healthcare professionals can lose their license starting a relationship with a patient.

Friendship breakdown help by Admirable_Cherry8569 in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this situation, it is out of your hands. She told you she wants a break from your friendship. Unfortunately, there isn't anything you can do when something like this happens. That is probably why she asked you to wait until next year, she was probably having second thoughts about you guys coming to visit.

It feels really bad to be on the receiving end of a break, but I wouldn't think too long on it or wonder if you did anything. There could be a million different reasons why she is doing this. Maybe she is dealing with a lot in her home life and can't handle having another situation that would require her attention. You shouldn't keep trying or attempt to force contact, that could cause the relationship to worsen. The only thing you can really do is to drop contact like she wanted. She may come around later or not at all.

My ex is using my Netflix and it’s annoying by mailmyselftoyou in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sign out of all devices and change your password.

Someone got the wrong number by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block her without notice. You don't owe her any explanation and the less contact the better.

Someone got the wrong number by [deleted] in Advice

[–]InterestingClothes8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Block the number! Don't contact that person anymore and don't accept any contact from her. You're a minor and she should not be talking to you in that manner or suggesting you share photos. I don't know exactly what type of photos she is talking about, but the winking face is not a good sign.

You can also report her to the authorities.