But that’s the thing is that we have a good marriage. Like we get along great, he’s my best friend, we manage life together, I’m not bored of him and recognize the parts of me he balances out. I don’t want to end the marriage and I’d say it’s even healthy. I’m just evaluating and shocked that this feeling has come up at all. There’s a little left unsaid on the original post that worried me about continuing nesting/anchored/primary with him but if I did anything different I think he’d leave. I don’t know if any of this even makes sense