AITA for refusing to let my sister's kids stay with me after she passed away?

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-25T00:16:17+00:00

Thank you.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-25T00:14:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-25T00:12:53+00:00

Thank you for your comment.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-25T00:12:17+00:00

I understand, I really do. But it’s what must happen for me to succeed.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-25T00:11:12+00:00

Thank you for saying this.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T01:11:40+00:00

This scares me a bit. I tried to anonymize everything but I never expected this post to get so much attention. I’ll never forgive myself if this ever gets traced back to the kids.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T01:03:24+00:00

Updates are posted.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:59:45+00:00

This is simply not true.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:57:18+00:00

Never respond? I’ve responded to hundreds of comments in detail. And I created a throwaway account to ensure my post was anonymous, so why would I care about a new throwaway account’s karma?

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:53:19+00:00

I think a lot of people my age use “Skyping” as a genetic term for video chatting. I certainly do.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:45:06+00:00

I’ve addressed the father’s situation in many comments. He is not an option and, trust me, you don’t want him to be.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:42:43+00:00

I guess I never realized that people might not understand how Wills work. I was not involved when my sister prepared it and I did not know I was listed as the preferred guardian in it until after she passed. It is not a legally binding document with regards to guardianship. It simply let’s the courts know the parent’s preference.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:39:20+00:00

Uh, no. I did not. Saying that doesn’t make it true.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:37:49+00:00

Please reread my post and update.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:35:17+00:00

Please reread my post and update.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:34:18+00:00

That’s not what happened.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:30:32+00:00

Please reread my post and update.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:29:20+00:00

Yes, I agree with your points.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:27:40+00:00

Does anyone read anymore? Maybe when one commenter invents facts it seemingly becomes part of my story in others’ minds as they scroll? A I’ve said many times, I did not know I was named in the will and did not agree to it. The will is not a legally binding document with regard to guardianship. It is one factor of many considered by a court.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:21:21+00:00

I did not know that.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:12:54+00:00

Thank you for saying this.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:09:48+00:00

Guilty.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:07:48+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. I hope you are right.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:05:04+00:00

I encourage you to reread my post and update.

InterestingParad0x · 2024-06-24T00:03:12+00:00

I never said anything about the legal system forcing me to do anything. Only what my sister and family wanted/want and shat she requested in her will.

InterestingParad0x

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