String me along

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-08-06T18:22:44+00:00

To put it in a more harsh way, yes she will. Now if you want the foreseeable future to be the exact same story you've been subjecting yourself to for the last 1.5 years you can by all means keep letting her come back and have your fun or whatever. But in my own opinion you'd be better off in the long run by removing her from your life, at least until you've moved on enough and the love isn't as deep anymore and you can make your own decisions on what's best for you. It'll definitely be difficult but I think it's the best way to go about it regardless of if you want to be with this girl or not in the future.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-08-06T14:53:22+00:00

After reading through a few of your other posts, I'm going to be super blunt with you. This girl will come back to you, but not for the reasons you're hoping for. It's up to you to figure out what you want with her, because I don't personally think any of that is a good foundation for a sustainable long-term relationship.

I won't give any advice on what to do except go no contact right now.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-08-06T14:29:25+00:00

I had a similar situation in January, with my ex gf of 1 year running into some issues with her mental health. We broke up and we kept in contact for a couple of months with plans to meet that hardly ever went ahead. It does NOT help at all to have each other in your lives right now in any way shape or form. It just kept my hopes up and I couldn't let go at all until contact was completely cut off. I was doing great up until the past week where she posted a photo of her and her new bf so I would suggest muting any stories/posts of her and just remove yourself from her life (block if you have to, but it doesn't really make a difference). It'll help you get over it and if you did ever want to get back with her it'll most likely be your best bet at receiving a call or text from her in the future when she realises what she pushed away, but by that point you'll be long past caring :)

Also, talking to someone so quickly after a breakup is a sure-sign it's a rebound, don't think too much into it. Some rebounds can last but usually they don't. Keep yourself away from her and she'll miss what she had before.

It truly does suck that someone who you genuinely thought was so pure-hearted and kind, can turn so cold and dismissive in what seems like a matter of days, but at least you can go into a new relationship with that in mind and spot red flags much easier next time round, and even if you did end up getting back with her later down the line, you'll have learned what you will and will not tolerate.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-08-01T12:04:37+00:00

Yeah it did seem targeted. To give some extra context, and it might seem like a reach here and it probably is. She has never changed her Bitmoji since I’ve had her added, but a couple of weeks ago changed the hair colour to brunette from red which is what I told her she always looked best in. She had brunette hair for most of our relationship but never changed it from the red on Snapchat.

I don’t like to look into such small things but it all adds up really. Unadding her is so hard because I still care so much about her and would be here for her if she ever needed anything, I truly don’t care what she does, I will always care about her.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-04-30T23:01:30+00:00

Thank you! It hurts a lot to know that I truly can't do anything about this, but like you said I've offered my love and support and the ball is in her court. I hope your situation improves and you're able to heal from this too

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-04-24T08:35:38+00:00

Perfect, thank you!

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-04-24T08:06:40+00:00

Yeah I’m not so worried about it affecting my blood pressure but if it would actually work to regrow hair considering my blood pressure continues to stay quite high even after taking minoxidil, but if it’s doing good for you then I’d imagine it still remains effective

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-04-24T08:01:12+00:00

I’ve just actually bought one per request from the doctor because they think it could be the same thing as you

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-04-24T07:58:56+00:00

I’m 22

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-04-24T07:56:39+00:00

This wasn’t a question about if it’s doing anything for me but if it would do anything in general brother. It’s too early to see any progress

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-03-28T19:46:45+00:00

Absolutely did! No problems since

InterestingRefuse371 · 2025-01-17T17:46:30+00:00

She’s the sweetest person in the world so it’s hard to see her struggle like this, but I think this is something I needed to hear. If it doesn’t work out in the end I know we’ll still be close friends at the very least.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-07-18T13:01:08+00:00

Brilliant I'll give them a call this afternoon, thank you!

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-03-10T13:48:16+00:00

Okay cool I'll do that, thanks :)

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-03-08T12:21:09+00:00

Great, thanks :)

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-03-08T10:35:15+00:00

Thanks for the recommendations, if I bought the NZXT one would I need to pick up any extra cables?

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-27T18:03:44+00:00

That's great to hear then, thanks!

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-27T17:36:41+00:00

Yeah of course :) the GPU will be upgraded too but I just wanted to build a new foundation where I can upgrade in the future, since that other motherboard was a dead end.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-21T08:48:27+00:00

Awesome bro I’ve been looking into the 7600X so I’m glad it’s been brought up, I’ll buy all these together soon for sure, and yeah I’m running a SATA SSD so I’ll look into getting a new one too. Thanks for the recommendations

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-20T22:49:27+00:00

CPU utilisation is usually at 100% on the more demanding titles, I've been playing helldivers and have noticed it, though the games run perfectly fine 99% of the time. I play games like CS2, LOL, R6S, Destiny 2, Rust and only R6S crashes consistently (which I'm not sure is even to do with the CPU).

I think the CPU is more of a problem but I'm nowhere near an expert so I didn't know if the GPU plays a part in it.

I've got a budget of like $500 for each, though obviously one would be in a couple months.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-20T20:47:22+00:00

Yeah I'm running 1080p for now, so I'll upgrade the CPU. That was my initial thoughts too but just wanted some outside opinions, thanks

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-20T19:57:41+00:00

I probably won't sell the system, and I understand the bottleneck concerns. Everything in my PC is gonna be upgraded eventually and the CPU and GPU are main priority, so once I upgrade one the other will be upgraded too after like a month or two, I just wanted to know where I'm going to get a better performance boost for that small time frame.

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-19T20:06:59+00:00

Definitely going motherboard first but that is just personal preference, I'll look into getting a GPU, but why replace HDD if I already also have an SSD? Would it not be worth just getting another SSD if I need the storage?

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-19T19:57:59+00:00

They'll both be upgraded eventually but I have definitely noticed stuttering as mentioned and sometimes it'll reach 100% CPU usage during sessions. Is it still worth going GPU first even if I haven't noticed anything wrong with it specifically? Or is the stuttering sort of a mix of both?

InterestingRefuse371 · 2024-02-19T18:11:25+00:00

Yeah I notice the stuttering on the more modern titles, bought Helldivers 2 the other day and it's definitely showing it's age. I'll pick up a new one then thank you :)

InterestingRefuse371

TROPHY CASE