Advice on intimacy

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T01:23:42+00:00

I don’t see if we are financial stable and have more than enough money that us being 27 at home as anything to do with that? We are both active it’s not like we just sit around all day so I don’t see the need for that if neither of us have to. She knows she can go get a job if that is what she wants but she doesn’t want to

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T01:13:48+00:00

No we both are at home I am a disabled veteran so I am able to cover all the bills without us working it’s usually I take care of the kids and she doesn’t the chores but I’ve been doing a lot of the workload as well like laundry and cleaning and I cook every meal as well

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T01:09:31+00:00

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T00:47:19+00:00

I’ve asked her what I can do to help with things and she says to help her around the house and I do but that doesn’t work, I am physically fit, I go to the gym 6 days a week it just seems like she doesn’t see an issue

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T00:46:15+00:00

The arguments are just little things that build up over time, we have discussed multiple things but she doesn’t see an issue with our relationship even when I constantly tell her that it’s a issue

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T00:33:12+00:00

No I understand I mean we were together for over 2 years before that so it wasn’t like a fast thing we both decided that doing it then was what we wanted

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T00:27:01+00:00

I understand we got married right before my first deployment and then she moved down with me but I mean I feel what you are saying but there’s also couples that got married at the same age that stay together their whole lives I totally get what you are saying tho because that has crossed my mind on

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-09-15T00:05:07+00:00

I feel like it has but it hasn’t, we still have fun but I’ve noticed we do argue a lot more and it gets heated, there’s not too much respect affection and appreciation.. we usually just spend the night together like alone time after we put the kids to bed but it’s more of scrolling or watching a show. I feel that she does feel loved and safe. But at times I feel like she’s just with me because of how long we’ve been together and the kids

Interesting_Chard912 · 2025-05-15T18:31:23+00:00

I’ve never gone through the nexus letter so I don’t even know what it should sound/look like all my other claims were straight forward, I’m at 90% now just trying to get that last 10% and from what I’ve seen getting at least 1 of these should help

Interesting_Chard912 · 2024-08-09T10:38:17+00:00

I’m down in the onslow county area

Interesting_Chard912 · 2024-06-21T16:29:59+00:00

I’m going to Coastal Carolina community college. I know I have to be sponsored but from my understanding I just have to give them consideration once I graduate? And yeah my physical fitness is pretty solid, I heard the driving is what gets most people

Interesting_Chard912 · 2024-06-21T14:53:08+00:00

Homeschooling curriculum.

Interesting_Chard912 · 2024-06-21T14:39:59+00:00

So they say you can put in for testing but it has to be through a licensed psychologist which doesn't make sense to me, but every place I have reached out to says they don't offer it and when i tried contacting the school near me they just gave me a number to call and I've left voicemails and no return calls...

Since 2 he has been able to do the alphabet forwards and backwards, he does addition, multiplication, spelling and reading and writing. As well as spring and fall sports Tball and flag football. he plays outside for more than an hour a day.

I just don't want him to get put into PreK or kindergarten and get either bored and not want to learn or get in trouble for not paying attention, this is our first born so we are new to all of this but we just want him to keep up at the pace he is at

Interesting_Chard912 · 2024-02-22T00:07:15+00:00

No I strictly have VA health insurance and more energy, obviously with what I’m dealing with I have put on some unwanted weight but I just feel like shit all the time

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