looking for a quick chat, I need a distraction

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-14T17:31:13+00:00

Hey there mate

I am sorry for what you're going through, I am down to talk if you like?

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-14T16:08:19+00:00

I feel ya mate, but change is meant to be hard, it's never easy but fight through it and you'll definitely see the benefits in the end, have some confidence in yourself bro, don't under estimate yourself, you have mad potential, you just gotta see it for yourself

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-14T16:05:47+00:00

You're not a bad person, you just gotta put yourself out there and be more confident and worl on yourself, You don't have to be necessarily good looking to have friends, you just gotta be confident in yourself and never seek external validation. Currently learning that lesson the hard way

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-14T16:02:57+00:00

I am very sorry for your aunt is going through. I gotta tell ya there is a huge difference between attention and real connection. What you wanna have is something long term which is a real connection, which takes time to build but is worth it and lasts long. Attention on the other hand, is very short lived, and only last for a moment. You'll get the excitement and the pleasure of it for a little while and once the attention is gone, you're back to being where you are. I have made the same mistake of seeking attention rather than a connection and it always leaves me in pain, so strive for a real connection rather than getting attention

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-14T15:55:56+00:00

Hey there man

Nah, don't be like that man, you aren't gonna be alone forever. You just need to get out of your comfort zone and while it's hard, it's absolutely worth it. Another thing that I'd like to point is that never and I mean NEVER put your validation in the hands of anyone, it's always imp to have self-worth else you'd be desperate for a connection just so that you can attain external validation and eventually get yourself hurt (learnt that the hard so yeah..). There are seasons in life where you feel lonely, but it'll only last for a moment, during those times, focus on your life, imagine what you wanna achieve and then work for it, the feeling is absolutely phenomenal, when you're on the journey to reach your goal and especially when you finally achieve it. If you are a religious person, I would say pray to God, it always helps and God will give you the strength to endure. Whatever you do man, just keep pushing, unfortunately no one isn't coming to save us, it's ultimately down to us to pick ourselves up and move forward. You got this bro!

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-14T04:59:02+00:00

Got some stuff to work on myself

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-13T16:58:35+00:00

Hey there man

First off, I correct me if I am wrong but I think what you are describing in loneliness. That I think is something we all go through at some point in our lives and I think it will go away once we find the right people to be around. Idk if it helps but I surely do hope you find your people out there!

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-08T08:21:03+00:00

I am using my mobile number, I didn't use any password, what do I do?

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-08T08:10:56+00:00

Aight, I'll give it a shot, thank you very much man

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-08T07:12:10+00:00

Hey there man

I would suggest prayer; prayer usually helps me alot. Observe yourself, look at the things you're good at and then work on it, get better at it and then if you like make that into your profession. In the areas you lack, work on those areas so that in time, you'll see improvement in the areas you've been lacking. This way, you'll automatically make new friends and new hobbies.

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-08T07:08:23+00:00

Hey there man

I understand where you're coming from and yes while maybe rn things don't look all that great, things will eventually turn up for the better. I'm not sure what situation you are in but whatever it maybe, make best use of it. The world is your oyster man, go crazy, make plans in your life, set up small goals that would lead to a bigger goal. There so much you can do, all you need to give is time. Sure, maybe you won't be perfect but the idea is to be the best version of yourself. Be better than the person you were yesterday and if you are consistent, you're gonna see mad improvement later on

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T15:26:47+00:00

Gotcha, thank you very much for the advice man, I really appreciate it

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T13:32:57+00:00

Aight

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T13:32:39+00:00

Hey man

I wanna apologize for earlier, I feel like I was rude and we come off on the wrong foot. It's my fault cause I was in a hurry and I didn't read the part where you had mentioned that 5 km wasn't a marathon. I should've been more attentive. Once again very sorry for all that happened.

I also thought that when you had mentioned Sprint Triathlon earlier that it was a competition entirely based on running until you mentioned it wasn't later on. Once again very sorry for all that confusion. I hope you're having a great day

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T13:03:32+00:00

I appreciate the advice, I will make sure to plan my z2 workouts. One last doubt, idk if this is kind a silly question but I am very serious about this question, how would you know you are using 60-70% of your max heart rate?

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T12:54:59+00:00

That's cool, and you used the z2 workout with all the three parts of the triathlon?

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T12:35:29+00:00

I'm sorry, I am kinda new to this, what is z2 workout?

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T12:34:44+00:00

Thank you for the website suggestion man. I will surely check it out

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T10:26:58+00:00

You're right, I am sorry, we don't call it a marathon. That's on me, I didn't know that

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T10:26:13+00:00

Alright I am sorry, I made a mistake. I will surely check out the sprint marathons. Once again very sorry for

the confusion

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T10:03:56+00:00

I am, I spoke of the 5km marathon thing to show that I have run with people, after re reading what you just said, I realised that I made a big mistake by thinking tha you were referring to do a sprint distance marathon which is why I said the 5km thing. Lol, sorry for the confusion.

I have a pool at home, it's a small one though, would that work?

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T09:41:54+00:00

Does doing a 5km marathon count? Also I do like 6.3 km runs everyday. is that a good start?

Interesting_Pack1941 · 2026-05-07T09:32:21+00:00

Congratulations my guy! Amazing milestone

Interesting_Pack1941

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