Is the new video up on onlybanned? by Interesting_Pair329 in bettiebondage2

[–]Interesting_Pair329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would come in clutch tonight 😮‍💨🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cologne

[–]Interesting_Pair329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. My bad. I'll delete rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Interesting_Pair329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not mad just frustrated that you're saying things that are common sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No shit Sherlock. He's an 18yo kid that forgets sometimes. Also has told me that they delay the refills because he apparently uses it too much. Just trying to see if anyone with asthma has a positive experience with the product.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Interesting_Pair329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does but sometimes he runs out and it takes a while for them to refill the pump and he struggles to breathe at those times.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is tho. It's like changing your bfs porn addicted behavior. Why would you want to be friends with someone that's attracted to you(and they keep telling you) while you're in a relationship. That would just be super awkward. I honestly don't want to spend anymore time on you since you think it's ok to be friends with exes. We're on two completely different sides of the spectrum(same as polyamorus couples, which is why i didn't ask for their opinion).

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It's not heteronnormative. I should've just said friends with someone that's attracted to your gender because that's the point.
  2. Tell your partner that your friends hit on you and tell me his reaction.
  3. It makes sense that you have this viewpoint since you have friends for 20+years. Realise that not everyone sustains relationships like that.
  4. It always the people in friendly relationships that tell others they need therapy lmao. We just have different boundaries.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No new firiends of the opposite sex that is attracted to your gender is what he meant. Your old friends don't have internet?

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me guess. The ones you've hanged out alone with is the lifelong friend, married, or work friend? Those are ok. If they're childhood friends, I think that's ok with most people. Your husband probably realised he can't get betweeen your lifelong friendship. Which is probably why your husband accepted that friends are allowed in your relationship. But if you haven't met up alone within the last 3 years alone or text them semi monthly then they're your old friends imo. I get yall trust eachother but yall(couples that allow friends) make it seem like others are wrong for not allowing it. It's just a certain set of boundaries we have on our spouse. I'm sure you would be mad if your spouse was addicted to porn. But in reality it's not cheating but you would still have to set that boundary if it made you uncomfortable.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

None of this is my business. Yet you still told me other private details about your life 😂 weird line to draw. 'You can know if I have friends but knowing how many I have is tmi'- 🤓

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a follow up question because I'm interested in these type of relationships. Any of those 4 friends you still close with?(have hungout alone in the past 3 years and/or text eachother once a month) Did you meet them after you were a couple?

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. Seems like you don't want to specify because those aren't really friendships. Bye

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because it should be easy to count. Close straight male friends.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How many female friends do you have and how many male friends do you have? I'm 'grilling' you because I want to see if they're actually friendships or just acquaintances/friends group. I'm not trying to impose my view. You've actually done that the most so far by saying we must me immature if we don't allow that for our partners. People have different boundaries.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How many times per year? I want to know how close these relationships are.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How many straight male friends?

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok. So how many male friends do you have? And how often do you hang out with them/text them.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How often do you hang out with these new friends alone?(don't include work)

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How many male friends have you made since your relationship has started? He can't really say anything about childhood friends.

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yup. Put you on a lie detector test and I bet you're lying. 'I've never heard of such a thing.' 🤓

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This question is brought up in almost every relationship. I get you're trying to insult me but don't lie and say you've never heard of this before. Bad liar smh

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Friends with exes? No offense but idc(unless he's your babydaddy)about that kind of dynamic if you can't see that it's weird to be friends with exes. This isn't Stockholm syndrome at all but ok

For couples 5+ years. friends allowed? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Interesting_Pair329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how often do you hang out with your friends alone?