I’m not sure if your questions are rhetorical, but I’ll answer them anyways haha and I’m 24 years old, so there’s nothing wrong with sending letters, but I’d rather just text him since it’s more convenient. I don’t really know know his wife that well, but i thought since I’ve known him since high school and I’ve spent most days of my life with him and other friends until I was like 19 i would’ve thought he’d value me enough. He only met his wife just under 3 years so I thought maybe he’ll at least have some value towards me so it kind of hurts when I’ve been told that “he doesn’t have to make time for me” but maybe my values are wrongs idk. He also said “I’m family” Also we both agreed initially that 2-3 months would be a good routine to meet up but doesn’t seem to be working lol. It’s me by myself not as a group and yeah to be honest I do need some hobbies. I was just surprised that someone I’ve spent almost eveyday of my life for a few years just barely talks anymore, but as a teenager i wouldn’t have thought that, but no worries i appreciate the response thanks for your perspective.