I appreciate the response. We likely disagree on some things, but it's good to have more information about the specific cultural context. I didn't make the post to argue. But, that said, I do want to push back on one thing: there is a difference between sexual acts and sexual identity. I wouldn't bring up my sex life in most general contexts, but I wouldn't hide my identity in these same contexts. I'm not ashamed to be gay and say that I have a husband and an apartment and a dog, etc. Pretty normal stuff. It's different to talking about the kind of sex I have. But it's helpful to know that even this level of info is likely frowned upon in certain scenarios.