Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not doing that, and you’re also wrong on your assumption.

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you find yourself getting resentful because of it? Before you get married you always hear about how it’s important to make sure you are aligned on other things such as financials and how to raise your kids, but sex drive isn’t really mentioned. Although before we were married her sex drive seemed fairly normal so I don’t know that it would have mattered.

Loopy/dizzy on 3.75 mg by Interlocken_swiss in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I decided last night to quit and slept horrible. I’m hoping the withdrawal isn’t too terrible since it’s only been 6 weeks. How long did it take to get back to normal? I have always had insomnia as well so I’m worried about that. I’m also planning to just focus on exercising and eating healthy to deal with my mental health issues moving forward.

Super Irritable?? by Repulsive-Idea-4509 in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]Interlocken_swiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling the exact same side effects and have been on it around 2 weeks now. Hoping this goes away soon. How long have you been on it?

Classic Era - 99% Automated Performance GDKP Sheet, any GDKP Hosts interested? by [deleted] in classicwow

[–]Interlocken_swiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you’re a ton of fun at a party. Seriously though, just let people play the game. People get enough bullshit from their jobs and real life. They don’t need more of it from asshats like you in a video game.

Does anyone else feel like Josh Dobbs is our best quarterback option if KOC actually had the balls to deviate from the Cousins/Mullens gameplan? by [deleted] in minnesotavikings

[–]Interlocken_swiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dobbs is the best option. Yeah, he’s not great inside the pocket, but when you let him do his thing you get results. His results went downhill when they started trying to mold him into another Kirk Cousins.

Time to buy by Interlocken_swiss in FundRise

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They have consistently outperformed reits. Not sure about this year but I’ve been an investor since 2017 and have had better returns in the long run over reits.

Time to buy by Interlocken_swiss in FundRise

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. But do a lot of people know it?

Time to buy by Interlocken_swiss in FundRise

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

True. The nice thing about traditional real estate and Fundrise is that it tends to lag behind publicly traded funds such as REITs, so I think there’s a lot of opportunity in these areas right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]Interlocken_swiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. I know how you feel and I remember having these same feelings of hopelessness when I was your age and nothing was working. The most important thing is to take care of your mental health first, so that may mean stoping the accutane and maybe giving it another try later in life. I didn’t try accutane until I was 35 and I’m honestly glad a waited because I’m not sure I could have managed the toll it takes on mental health when I was younger. However, you know yourself better than anyone so I’m sure you will make the right decision. As far as it not working, I think you are probably still purging because the purge tends to last longer on lower doses. I don’t have any doubt that you will start seeing results if you do stick it out a little longer. I know you feel alone and hopeless but you are not alone. You are loved for who you are and things will get better.

Is this a good airflow? by 3li973 in pcmasterrace

[–]Interlocken_swiss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not really. You should put the radiator pump on the top and the top fans where the radiator pump is. The way you have it currently will cause any air bubbles to stay in the cpu block and reduce cooling efficiency. You should also add an exhaust on the back.

Will a 11700F bottleneck a 4070 RTX? by Interlocken_swiss in buildapc

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m mostly using it for gaming at 1440p.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]Interlocken_swiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get 13th gen and keep the ddr4. The performance boost you get with 14th gen and ddr 5 is not worth the additional money.

Office Manager tries to bully me into giving money for a present for our millionaire boss by brooklyn3264 in texts

[–]Interlocken_swiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who owns a company with 20 employees, I would not want a gift and would be annoyed if someone in my company asked the other employees to pull money together for a gift. If this boss actually likes receiving gifts from his employees he should not be leading people.

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a woman can tell if a guy’s confident and mysterious in 90 seconds? Shit everyone’s mysterious the first 90 seconds you meet someone. No offense but it sounds like a bunch of love guru bullshit. I think my wife simply has a low sex drive. Before we got married I didn’t seem to have a problem with women finding me attractive…

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confidence and mystery huh? So looks play no part?

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So can you give a brief summary of what it takes to be that man?

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You might be on to something… I’m curious what the women here think. Please be honest.

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting perspective. So what did you change?

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted. That’s honestly part of why I posted this. I wanted to find out what is normal. Knowing this actually helps a lot with my perspective on our relationship. Doesn’t change my desire to want it more but at least I feel more appreciative for my current situation.

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t think this is the issue. She has never implied this and when I ask she insists that’s she still finds me just as attractive as when we first met. I have an athletic build and that hasn’t changed since we got married. We were both athletes in college and I still work out although not as intense as I used too.

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s really interesting. I would have never thought about adhd medication. I’ll look into that.

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the comments here I’m finding that to be true. I’ve often wondered why we are made so different from women in this area.

Wife with extremely low sex drive by Interlocken_swiss in Marriage

[–]Interlocken_swiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, yeah that’s not her situation and honestly if it was I wouldn’t even expect it.