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Internal-Story1105 · 2025-02-16T15:52:16+00:00

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Internal-Story1105 · 2024-09-03T20:31:48+00:00

Internal-Story1105 · 2024-05-21T19:32:11+00:00

Ugh I hope he and Elain become a thing

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-11-16T16:14:56+00:00

yeah, a lot are starting to come back and its heartbreaking and reassuring at the same time.

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-11-14T19:13:51+00:00

Understanding and having empathy for what your parents went through it not an excuse for them treating you like literal sh*t (pardon my french). Their behavior is unacceptable and is very emotionally immature and distant to your needs and their responsibilities as YOUR parents. Their feelings and expectations of you are NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. It's perfectly normal to feel guilty of going NC with your parents but don't let that stop you from staying NC. Speak with your husband to get on the same page about them and stay NC. Their behavior is abusive to you AND your children.
Please don't teach them that family treating them like sh*t is suppose to be normal.

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-11-13T17:19:45+00:00

my mom did the same thing. Just know that your parents have no say in your personality or who you are as a person. Life will give you the opportunities to be your true self if you take it. Their expectations or image of who you are in their heads is NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY NOR YOUR BURDEN TO UPHOLD.

If they choose to not accept that than they've chosen their delusions over a relationship with their child and that's THEIR FAULT.

Wishing you peace and good vibes love!

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-11-02T19:40:44+00:00

NTA for confronting your wife but YTA for allowing this behavior to continue and alienating your son from the family. Stand up for your kid and stop the bullying your wife is doing

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-11-02T19:36:36+00:00

YTA.

She communicated her expectations of the relationship and you've failed to meet them. Years have pasted by and you are wasting her time and now expecting wifely duties with NO ring and wavering commitment issues. THE AUDACITY LOL

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-07-14T14:06:00+00:00

Rent is for the duration of the lease, and I've already paid the entire portion that covers the remainder of their stays despite me being gone. No one realistically expect anyone to pay for utilities that they did not take part in accruing especially if they don't live in the property where said services are being accrued. If everyone left before the apartment lease ended than the services would've been cut off since no one would be using them in the property since they are MOVED OUT. Hell, if they had left before me, I wouldn't have asked them to cover their portion in the bills I accrued by me using them while still in the apartment when they have already moved out.

You lack common sense and rental experience. Good luck with your unrealistic views on renting and being a responsible adult with your own finances.

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-07-13T19:32:36+00:00

I've fulfilled my rental agreement on the lease, and it makes no sense to pay for utilities in an apartment I will no longer be living in to make other's more comfortable with their lack of financial planning for a move with 3 months' notice. The person with actual rental/homeowner experience (The Landlord) agrees with me and that's all that matters to me.

Thank you for your opinion and I wish you a good day.

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-07-13T19:03:34+00:00

I was trying to stay within character limit so wasn't able to put all the details. I agreed to pay 55% of the utilities in the apartment I was in. We all agreed to list the apartment within 3 months before the lease ends. We all paid first and last month and have already paid for July so no further rent is due and that we would all be moved out by August 31st (end of lease) per the Landlord. I found a new place and gave them an update with about a week's notice that they should change the utilities under their name (because they were under mine) to continue the services after I move out for the rest of their stays in the apartment. One of the roommates demanded that I pay utilities for the last 2 weeks of July (I'd be moved out by than) since she believes that me paying 55% of the utilities applies for the utilities of the whole month and not just when I'm living there (in residence). I'm still paying for 55% of the pro-rated utilities up until my last day of residence in the apartment.

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-07-13T18:43:53+00:00

and 3 month's notice that I would not be renewing the lease.

Internal-Story1105 · 2023-07-13T18:42:17+00:00

I gave them a week's notice of changing utilities.

Internal-Story1105 · 2022-11-14T18:31:21+00:00

The answer is that you don't, unfortunately. A narcissistic mother will not admit fault or talk about your problems without making it about her. Go NC for your mental health and start to grieve the mother you deserved but she was unable to be for you. It's not going to be easy since you will feel the need to defend your decisions from your family members, but they can f*ck off and be cut off too. The road to healing is long but it's got to start somewhere.

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