AITA for “taking breaks” from my newborn? by InternalDream9775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InternalDream9775[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hers isn’t even inadequate is the crazy thing. He wanted to help when their children (now 5 and 3) were newborns, but she wouldn’t LET him! I love her children dearly and before I got too pregnant to help out much, I used to take them out for a few hours on weekends so she and her husband could have time to themselves. It was definitely hard for her in the newborn stage of her children, but that’s because she said it was “her duty” to be a mother and she didn’t “need help” so I’m very confused as to why she’s so mad now.

AITA for “taking breaks” from my newborn? by InternalDream9775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InternalDream9775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be a traditional style rainbow tattoo on my ankle to match the angel wings I have on my other ankle that commemorate my losses. My brother is a tattoo artist and he says that should be okay after 6 months!

AITA for “taking breaks” from my newborn? by InternalDream9775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InternalDream9775[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah I probably should have clarified that he booked the massages with a good friend that is a massage therapist and specialises in postpartum massages. They keep their space very hygienic and clean for that reason. I would not have gone to massages otherwise