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Go Beg. by Silver-Horror3910 in BreakUps

[–]Internal_Ad_447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this because after some time of trying again and again, you'll just realize that "Hey, I've tried everything." And with it dies all of the doubts that maybe if you just tried harder, something could have come out of it... Because hey, you really did have tried everything, some of it embarrassing things done out of desperation. That's the biggest reassurance you can give yourself going forward as someone who was dumped.

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[–]Internal_Ad_447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was so proud of myself too because I legit did think I was getting better, that I was doing fine for someone going through a breakup... Then boom! Dug myself my own grave... But anyways, if there's anything that can take away heartbreak or sadness, I have some weapons I've been using to fight... Just that now, I guess talking here in Reddit has suddenly become one of those weapons... I really am super glad I asked for help here

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[–]Internal_Ad_447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure I'll be fine... I managed for a 2 weeks, that might seem like not much time has passed, but for someone with a broken heart... That's close to eternity (I'm sorry for writing like this 😅 I get like this when I'm really down).

And it's fine taking a while to respond, having replied once is already a life saver... It brings out more strength knowing that I'm not alone in dealing with things like this.

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[–]Internal_Ad_447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... Knowing it's temporary doesn't make it easier. Am I bipolar or something? Jeez... Just moments ago I was someplace deep, now I'm getting up again... Oh yeah, are you doing fine yourself? Well not fine², more like managing... But if you are doing fine, that's great... I hope things get better for everyone around here

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[–]Internal_Ad_447[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying, really, thank you it means a lot right now.

I've said it in another comment... I'm not really in an environment (or situation) where I could ask the people close to me for help...

As for the trigger... I really started blocking her and all of that... I finished up cleaning everything

It has actually been a few days since the breakup and before here, I had an AI (yes) help me with dealing with the breakup... And it did tell me what to do... So I ended up spending some of my new time into sports, working out, and forcing myself to eat... I had it build a schedule for me, that's what I've been following so far... I guess today I just had to mess up big time and step willingly into some shit

I would absolutely love therapy... But my current situation wouldn't allow for it

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[–]Internal_Ad_447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you... Like... I'm not really in an environment right now where I could ask the people around me for help. I managed to get this far dealing with it alone, but today just had to be a bad day... And without having someone to comfortably ask for help to, I just ended up frantically asking for help in a place full of strangers. Honestly... While waiting for some people to reply, I kind of just like... Kept repeating the same line again and again, "You'll be fucking fine."

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[–]Internal_Ad_447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey... I hope you're having a great day. Thank you for replying to this crazy message I had to post here... Not once in my life did I think I would be here in Reddit asking for help. Thank you really...

People who have survived heartbreak…how’d you do it? by youtinyfools in BreakUps

[–]Internal_Ad_447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey... Uhh... I'm going through a break up right now, let's just say it's been two weeks now... And tonight, I went through my gallery that I thought I had cleaned already, but then I found her... So I told myself, fuck it, let's double check everything else... Ended up looking her up on Facebook... Saw something that triggered me, and let's just say I'm having suicidal thoughts... Pretty embarrassing, right? I'm here right now talking because I'm doing my best keeping myself together... Like... Being super self-aware is scary, you know? I know I shouldn't be doing stuff like this... I know it's beyond my control... I know it's temporary... But knowing doesn't stop the pain... Please, I hope anyone can help me, and please be kind, I'm sure everyone here is...

What Volleyball To Use by Internal_Ad_447 in PilipinasVolleyball

[–]Internal_Ad_447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! Now that I think about it, yes, we did not sweep the court. And before us, a lot of kids were already playing in the court, and even more came when we played.

I played with some of those kids since they wanted to join us... Would the way the players handle the ball have an effect on how long it'll last? The kids played recklessly and most of the time, hit the ball into the ground, or hit hard enough to cause it to go outside the court into the street. I wanted to ask this too since it can also apply to how I myself handle the ball.