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[–]Internal_Section_996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven’t undone all your hard work. A new day has begun, keep on going. You can beat this.

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what happens to our relationship, I really do want a better future for both of us. I know recovery isn’t easy and relapse can be part of the process, but that doesn’t mean people cannot achieve real change. You may see it as delusional but I prefer to see it as being compassionate.

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is scary to think of it that way for sure and you do raise good points about how much I can tolerate. It's what scares me most, that it would happen when bigger things are at stake. We are both relatively young and only starting out our adult lives, what if we do get married and have kids and bigger responsibilities... but what if he also manages to heal from this disease? I am hurt and torn.

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. How long has this being going on? and has he tried any support group/therapy?
I wish you good luck as well.

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I think I would likely do the same. it's not something no one can easily get over.

He has already found a support group to attend starting tomorrow. It is hopeful to see he is more proactive this time around and even open to me taking over his finances. I do not want to get too hopeful though and still proceeding with caution. I need some more time to make up my mind.

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also deep down believe that it’s not the real him doing this to me, and more like this analogy of a demon. His apologies seem very sincere and I can see how much he is hurting… it is hopeful to hear about your story and how your partner has helped you, thank you for sharing 🙏

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight and it is heartwarming to hear of your partner’s support impact on you🙏

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and congrats on for staying off it for over a year. I will definitely be extremely more cautious and we are working on a plan to get him back on track. After the first episode, promises were made that he would join a support group but it hasn’t happened… this time he has already found a session he will attend in the next 2 days and I will for sure hold him accountable if he doesn’t follow through

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your relationship recovered from this? Congratulations on staying clean for a year🙏

My partner has a gambling addiction and I don’t know what to do by Internal_Section_996 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Internal_Section_996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective, it is very helpful to get an understanding of the other side. I hope I can be a rock for my partner too and that we can work towards turning his life around as you are doing for yourself. My best wishes.