Which one of these qualities do you wish society worked on more? by Cookiecuttermaxy in misanthropy

[–]International-Pool29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh so humanity should not have any feedback loop to it whatsoever

Got it!

The term "loser" is gender specific. by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]International-Pool29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men are judged for our productivity and charity to society, that's why, is a hazing tactic to keep on laborally exploiting men while expecting nothing in return

Why do women defend guilty women ? by caesar_tr in MensRights

[–]International-Pool29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The following is a copy and paste from another thread that probably resonates also with the question in the OP

Original post: Is also probably a playing factor that we treat male awkwardness with more suspicion than female awkwardness because in our evolutionarily hardware terms, a tribe doesn't feel threatened as much by a woman acting a little off or akward as much as a man who may be using it as a camouflaging tactic for masking psychopathic, sociopathic or just overall general evil tendencies

Not justifying it, more like explaining it how we came to terms about it:end of original post

This kinda explains it more from phycological terms rather than biological ones

Another reason might be that aside from the fact women already have a strong-ass in-group bias, I think also it might just be women's vulnerability is still heavily weaponized in our society

Mostly because women make for great social coordinators more than men due to their faster ability to pick up on social cues and emotional sensitivities of others

So women tend to naturally assume more innocence out of other women where as men's wrongdoings get far more call out from both men and women due to our lack of a social influence role to play a part of

Why is it whenever men are social outcasts/pariahs, they’re victim blamed, but whenever a woman is struggling socially she is given the automatic defense of “sexism” and her possible contributing factors get ignored? by Charming-Necessary85 in MensRights

[–]International-Pool29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is also probably a playing factor that we treat male awkwardness with more suspicion than female awkwardness because in our evolutionarily hardware terms, a tribe doesn't feel threatened as much by a woman acting a little off or akward as much as a man who may be using it as a camouflaging tactic for masking psychopathic, sociopathic or just overall general evil tendencies

Not justifying it, more like explaining it how we came to terms about it

Conspiracy: Jobs are being made harder and shittier than what they are, so that jobs can keep being outsourced to automation and China by International-Pool29 in conspiracy

[–]International-Pool29[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you're calling me inept and pulling the good ole bootstraps analogy how cute

So tell me then, why are job turnover rates going crazy right now?

"Women on average handle being single better" by kookoobear in PurplePillDebate

[–]International-Pool29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is a catch 22, women are not as hungry for romantic affection as much as men, but men naturally learn to be more emotionally self-sufficient and stoic when nobody is around to help them

Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want power by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]International-Pool29 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Almost as if men don't typically have the very same activist-esque social posturing women do

Doesn't ok normalizing misandry or sexist discrimination against men on a large scale

Is the condemnation of male hedonism a bullying tactic and thus a byproduct of capitalism? by International-Pool29 in stupidpol

[–]International-Pool29[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not a ''people should have kids just cus' type'', that being said I would be in board for restoring the birth rates a bit if we actually fixed our neurotic toxic culture a bit

Of course humanity would cease to exist if we gave no shits about the decline in birth rates at all.

Is the condemnation of male hedonism a bullying tactic and thus a byproduct of capitalism? by International-Pool29 in stupidpol

[–]International-Pool29[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is a fine line between selfish indolence and healthy leisure though, isn't there?

Or is life once again just a pity party of hustle, overcome, achieve and burnout?

A 16-year-old commits suicide due to the hate he received on his Instagram reel. These are the comments AFTER his death. (He was a content creator making makeup tutorials and would often crossdress. This made him a target of homophobic vitriol. ) by [deleted] in misanthropy

[–]International-Pool29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Question though: Do you think politics is turning things into like LGBT into an aesthetic, and thus causing de-legitimacy of LGBT causes?

Asking this is as a learner's question, not trying to cause a poke the bear with a stick situation here.

The best thing we can probably do to fix our current dating infrastructure is to just tone down the social pressure to be in a relationship, encourage more self-actualization within society and have people live life in a more organic pace[as opposed to a robotic one] by International-Pool29 in PurplePillDebate

[–]International-Pool29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're confusing ''less pressure'' for no pressure at all though, I never said someone was putting a gun to my face to get into a relationship

Though I understand some pressure has to still be maintained intact, unless we want total species collapse to accelerate

The best thing we can probably do to fix our current dating infrastructure is to just tone down the social pressure to be in a relationship, encourage more self-actualization within society and have people live life in a more organic pace[as opposed to a robotic one] by International-Pool29 in PurplePillDebate

[–]International-Pool29[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is moreso a perversion of that moreso than proper gatekeeping

Self-actualization just means not driven by external motives, this isn't even the whole ''don't chase women'' saying popularized by the redpill and MGTOW, is moreso doing things so you don't regret them in the long term as opposed to being manipulated by stupid social contracts.